Should I send this to my ex?

[HateLove]

Ok, long story short my ex is sort of a narcissist/borderline personality. We dated for a year. I broke up with her once due to her relentless criticism, but she physically hit me, cried like a baby, and begged me to take her back. I was weak, the relationship went on. Later, I broke up with her again for the same reason, again she took me back. But this time she broke up with me a week later and would not take me back! She had found someone else and, though she didn't cheat on me, she was with him only a few weeks after the relationship ended.

 

Nevertheless, she's continued to contact me after the breakup and we've had sex a few times. Last she called me, I told her to **** off. She proceeded to criticize me via text saying things like "you need therapy" and "you scare me," but then (typical of her ups and downs) she said, "Well I'll just keep bugging you until you're nice to me again."

 

I've had enough and, when she contacts me again, I'm thinking of sending her this email which is purposefully offensive because maybe she'll really leave me alone. What does everyone think? Is it a good idea or not? Should I modify it? Or should I just not respond at all?

 

"So I do apologize for telling you off last week. I know you think it’s resentment, but it’s not. I was actually intending to tell you off in the hopes that you wouldn’t contact me anymore. Like I said, it’s not that I don’t respect you, it’s just that you hurt me very, very badly (worse than I think you’ve ever realized) and I simply have no desire to “shoot the ****” with someone like that. After all, you are sort of a manipulative person, and you manipulated me into believing things about myself that simply aren’t, and never were, true. I acted in ways I never have before in my life at the end of, and after, our relationship. So bravo, you are a master. On some level, I’m impressed.

 

I know this sounds messed up but the only interaction I could ever envision having with you, due to its impersonal nature, any time in the near future is late night sex. Obviously if one of us is dating someone else (I’m unexpectedly in the beginning stages of something right now that may or may not pan out), then it might not work (though this didn’t seem to bother you a few weeks ago…).

 

I’m assuming this isn’t going to rub you the right way, so I’ll wish you the best of luck with your new life and not expect to hear back from you soon, if ever. I hope you experience the exciting, hectic, and sometimes dangerous mid-twenties California lifestyle that I did, and it seems like you’ve already got that ball rolling. It’s an amazing place to be and I don’t plan on ever moving if I can help it. But, unless you want no strings attached sex, please don’t contact me again."

[raymondebontrager]

I Think NO..Why because you're making gap between you two..instead that both of you will separated in good terms...you will make trouble between you two.