MillerBoi Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Last couple months my partner been texting and chatting on the phone to another guy they met while being involved planning a function, ive been with my partner for 3 years and ive never felt so jealous in my life i asked and he just said they have common interests and its just chit chat should i be scared ? or is it just jealousy ? never felt like this before
MammaMia Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 MillerBoi: Yes, I would be concerned. My H told me the same about the woman he had an EA with. He told me that they had a lot in common and he went as far as telling me what they were. Thank God I caught it in time before it turned to a PA. I would keep an eye on him. Get a voice activated recorder, a GPS, a keylogger, a spy apparatus for cell phones, hire a PI or whatever else you have to do to get to the bottom of it. Nip it in the bud before it is too late. But even if you try now, before things get serious, it will still be hard. for your partner to separate from him. Even if your partner tells you he severed contact, do not take promises vace value. It is tough to pull away; it takes hard work. Good luck
findingnemo Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 (edited) MillerBoi: Yes, I would be concerned. My H told me the same about the woman he had an EA with. He told me that they had a lot in common and he went as far as telling me what they were. Thank God I caught it in time before it turned to a PA. I would keep an eye on him. Get a voice activated recorder, a GPS, a keylogger, a spy apparatus for cell phones, hire a PI or whatever else you have to do to get to the bottom of it. Nip it in the bud before it is too late. But even if you try now, before things get serious, it will still be hard. for your partner to separate from him. Even if your partner tells you he severed contact, do not take promises vace value. It is tough to pull away; it takes hard work. Good luck ^^^^this is good advice. Texting, talking, telling you how much they have in common = liking them, getting to know them better, getting closer. It takes a few minutes and time spent alone for this friendship to progress into a kiss and then...problems. Warn him about it. Tell him that it gives you the creeps and that you will not accept any apologies should anything happen. Adults are like kids in many ways. They play with fire and suspend all internal doubts. Sometimes when warned, they'll think about it and decide not to pursue whatever it is. Give him that warning NOW. Don't mind his reaction. He might get mad and say you're possessive etc. Whatever he says, he will think about what you've said. Beyond that, do what Mamma advises above. Edited November 10, 2011 by findingnemo
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