StellaA Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Met up with ex tonight....he wants me back. We kissed, i love him but is it the right thing? feel sick
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Met up with ex tonight....he wants me back. We kissed, i love him but is it the right thing? feel sick Stella, you've asked this question a bazillion times. Go back and read all your past threads and advice given. There is nothing anyone can tell you anymore. You just have to either, take a risk or walk away. You can ask this question 20 different ways and you'll never get an answer. It's a choice you have to make.
othersideofthepillow Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 does the good outweigh the bad? do YOU FEEL that it will work out in the long run? are the issues that lead to the split addressed and taken care of? do YOU want him back for the right reasons....not just being alone or afraid you wont find someone else? if the answers are yes than yes....GO FOR IT! the majority of us dumpees here are waiting for that situation with our ex's lol
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 does the good outweigh the bad? do YOU FEEL that it will work out in the long run? are the issues that lead to the split addressed and taken care of? do YOU want him back for the right reasons....not just being alone or afraid you wont find someone else? if the answers are yes than yes....GO FOR IT! the majority of us dumpees here are waiting for that situation with our ex's lol Othersideofthepillow, read her history and the advice given in all her posts. It's not so cut and dry.
Author StellaA Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 Thanks for the advice guys. Yes I know about the advice given, I was updating what had happened. That's why we come on here too talk. I have had lots of diff advice and it is nice to hear from diff people and their experiences but don't think I will be posting again.
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 (edited) Thanks for the advice guys. Yes I know about the advice given, I was updating what had happened. That's why we come on here too talk. I have had lots of diff advice and it is nice to hear from diff people and their experiences but don't think I will be posting again. I believe this is the second time you both have kissed and you are now back from your vacation after giving it time and thought. There has been a lot of different advice from the first time you kissed and will be the second time you've kissed. No one can give you the right answer. You either take that risk or you walk away Stella. You can ask this question for a year but until you make a decision, you'll always be stuck where you are. Post as much as you want. All I am saying is you keep asking the question without wanting to make a decision because you want to hear someone say go for it. But if you have had to ask this question so many times, then your gut feelings are telling you it's not right. Listen to it. Edited November 10, 2011 by geegirl
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