Chubbi Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 So, anyway, let me tell you how women's emotions change. Prime example: me. I didn't pay attention to him at all, at first. Like didn't notice he sat beside me in class. (I'm in med school.) Anyway, when I was at a party, the guy and I end up talking for awhile. We were first in a group and then we got sequestered in our own convo. We have a lot in common. And I'm like, "You sit behind me right?" No. Comes to find out he sits right beside me. I hadn't even seen him before. Apparently, he had noticed me. In between talking to him, I realized he's actually fairly handsome, but I shrugged it off because I thought he could be a really stuck-up handsome guy (he's that cute). He was actually very easy to talk to, but then I figured he was a smooth-talker, and I was tired to bad guys. My walls came up and it made less nervous. So, after our hours convo, he's like "Maybe I'll see you sometime later this weekend!" And I'm like "Yeah, yeah." Totally forgot about him. lol. I wanted to play billards and he was holding me up. I get home and then it hits me that I'm interested. This is like five hours after the conversation. I get to school and actually notice he sits beside me. Then I wonder what was I thinking. All attraction is gone for some reason, so I forget all about him. I confirm in my head that he isn't any good news. Weeks later, I'm looking at my professor and his head is in the way. And then, I see him. Actually see him, and my attraction goes through the roof. He's actually very handsome! He's funny and soo extremely studious and hard-working, yet easy-going. So now I'm like super interested and I want to get to know him. A lot. He speaks to me when he sees me (I wouldn't speak to him at all if he didn't lol), but I'm so nervous and quiet. And I feel so awkward, and I'm questioning my every movement around him. He's 27 and sooo studious. He says he wants to study because he knows what he wants now. I'm happy that he's studious but he doesn't come out to parties as much. What should I do? We ended up studying together in a group. I came late, and I asked him if he needed more space because he was sitting really close to me and leaning towards me. He said he didn't. I finally had to move over anyway because I couldn't concentrate with his proximity like that. He then tried to ask me about something in the reading but I had to confess that I couldn't get anything in the study area. Lol! Ughhhhhh!!! Another thing is my friend told me he told her he used to be a bad boy back when he was younger (my age) but now he's change. This guy studies like 24/7, but he's also loves to chat too. He's not partying anymore though. I got so depressed because I don't want a player or a reformed player. What should I do?!!!
Pillow Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 There are some men that it takes time to start to be interested in. It's like seeing the guy in his element can drive women through the roof. Maybe the guy is so studious because no one asks him to go with them.
thatone Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 What should I do?!!! grow up? that's the first thing that comes to mind unless your friend dated him she doesn't know anything more about him than you do, which is basically nothing. so go out on a few dates with him and find out. this isn't rocket science.
Author Chubbi Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 grow up? that's the first thing that comes to mind unless your friend dated him she doesn't know anything more about him than you do, which is basically nothing. so go out on a few dates with him and find out. this isn't rocket science. People with book smart don't have all the common sense. And I'm 22. It's going to be awhile before I grow up. I don't have a lot of experience and I'm really lame. I know my friend doesn't know anything, but men should be aware that if you tell one girl something, 9 out of ten times it will be around the school in two hours. Women tell each other everything they know about a guy especially if the friend knows the other girl likes him. I don't know why men let their thoughts just go like that when women are the biggest gossipers in the world.
thatone Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 People with book smart don't have all the common sense. And I'm 22. It's going to be awhile before I grow up. I don't have a lot of experience and I'm really lame. I know my friend doesn't know anything, but men should be aware that if you tell one girl something, 9 out of ten times it will be around the school in two hours. Women tell each other everything they know about a guy especially if the friend knows the other girl likes him. I don't know why men let their thoughts just go like that when women are the biggest gossipers in the world. well, you have to consider that he wouldn't tell your friend anything he wanted to remain secret. so he obviously isn't very secretive about his past. i was reading another thread and thought you said you were 26, i got my threads mixed up, so yeah at 22 i get what you're saying. i didn't mean that to sound rude. but the advice is pretty much the same. relax, don't over analyze, because things rarely turn out the way you assume they will. dating isn't supposed to be difficult, if he shows interest and you're interested go out with him. be polite, talk about stuff, that's how you figure people out. it's pretty simple, really.
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