loveless-t Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 married for eleven years to same women, worked two jobs at the time and she said she felt like she was neglected. and had two kids. during a really bad time we lost our house and had to move in with mother inlaw. and then it changed. she started to be distant one reason is because our youngest was screaming through the night so she slept in the room with the baby. little did i know that she meet a friend a year before and was texting her through the night. i later found out that something happened with this women and she said i need space, i moved out and about a month into moving out she asked me to come over to the house and talk. i get over there and she says she thinks she is gay, she then proceeds to tell me that they are not datiing but she needs space from me. fast forward 3 months in she is no confussed about who she is. gay or not. fast forward to recent. am at the end. she lies about everything and blames my negelect from the past on what is happening now. a friend of hers who is gay and married is starting something under the table with her but she says were just friends. and she just started AA and met a women there and there starting to talk it just makes me sick because my two girls is under the same roof with her. am sorry but negelect does not warrent cheating, i never cheated on her.....never. am soooooooo done with this marriage but the pain is there and am trying to deal
toosoft Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 She is dragging you into her confusion. Stick to low contact, keep it about the kids. See the kids regularly but dont be drawn in by her into conversation outside of the kids. If your over the marriage... seek divorce and move on buddy.
Author loveless-t Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 everything you said is right am so done with the games, am thinking all about the kids still hard times but am trying:sick:
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