Doing the right thing?

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So today three weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up. It was a rather confusing break up. We proabably would not of broken up if I didn't keep digging deeper and deeper into a question he asked and should of just left it at what he told me. But due to me being a little paranoid I kept pushing him farther and farther to the point that I kinda broke us up. Then the next night I texted him asking what happen and it lead to him saying he was selfish and didn't want to have to care about someone else. So I left it at that and figured he would text me, finally when he did not text me it set in that we were over. The first week was really hard for me I thought about him all the time and purposely isolated myself from everyone and saw him talking to other girls. So I finally got the attitude that this guy and I were not meant to be and that I have to move on. I also learned a few lessons, I need to not be as paranoid and not jump the gun. I'm at the point where I still think about him and glance at him during class but i am back to my happy self and hanging out with friends and goofing around. I do feel bad that i'm trying to move on so quick..Should I feel bad?? I mean I like to think there is a chance that we could get back togeather but I don't want to hold out and wait for him or releaspe and start obsessing over him again :/

[geegirl]

So today three weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up. It was a rather confusing break up. We proabably would not of broken up if I didn't keep digging deeper and deeper into a question he asked and should of just left it at what he told me. But due to me being a little paranoid I kept pushing him farther and farther to the point that I kinda broke us up. Then the next night I texted him asking what happen and it lead to him saying he was selfish and didn't want to have to care about someone else. So I left it at that and figured he would text me, finally when he did not text me it set in that we were over. The first week was really hard for me I thought about him all the time and purposely isolated myself from everyone and saw him talking to other girls. So I finally got the attitude that this guy and I were not meant to be and that I have to move on. I also learned a few lessons, I need to not be as paranoid and not jump the gun. I'm at the point where I still think about him and glance at him during class but i am back to my happy self and hanging out with friends and goofing around. I do feel bad that i'm trying to move on so quick..Should I feel bad?? I mean I like to think there is a chance that we could get back togeather but I don't want to hold out and wait for him or releaspe and start obsessing over him again :/

 

The fact that he mentioned that he feels selfish and that he does not want to have to care for someone leads me to believe that he used the "question" as a reason to end it.

 

You feel bad? He most likely wanted the break up.

 

It's a break up. And that means you move on. You are under no timeline as to when you put yourself out there again. He's already talking to other women. Move on.