notsure_21 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 My fiance and I have been together for 3 years, we lived together for most of that. He is 32 and I am 24 and he decided to live out his dream and go to college to become a diesel mechanic. I fully supported that and helped him in every way possible and things are going really great...until today. He is always complaining about his classmates being immature (for example today they had a ketchup fight). It's to be expected though since most of them are men in their teens and early twenties. Now from what I've heard over the past year the men in this class are very rude and don't know how to behave in front of females and kind of try to out the females. My fiance is not like that at all and he believes they should be treated equal (and I fully agree!). So with that being said my fiance calls me today and tells me that they are teasing him and making comments that he and a girl in the class "like each other". He said some of the problem is that they are jealous because the girl has dated some of them and won't get back with them so they constantly harass her. My problem is this: My fiance's come back to them was "no she's taken". This one line keeps running through my head. Am I reading into that one line too much. Need opinions please. I just want to add that he did cheat on a past girlfriend about 6 years ago SO that is also what I'm taking into consideration.
KathyM Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 I guess if I were in your situation, I would tell my fiance, next time something like that happens, or someone makes inappropriate comments, tell them "I have a wonderful fiance at home. I'm not interested in anyone else." That's all that needs to be said. I wouldn't read anything into his response that he gave if I were you.
Author notsure_21 Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Thank You. I think that maybe he was just shocked for a minute and that answer popped out of his mouth. He said his first thought was that her current boyfriend goes to that same college and he doesn't want any problems. So hopefully my gut is right and I don't have anything to worry about.
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