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Sprinkle

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Sprinkle

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Hi all, I am currently on a break with my bf who i dated for 1.5 yrs. He is the one who request this. I am going through some rough time, trying to figure out what to do! The reason he wanted this time apart is b/c he wanted to figure things out and see where is this relationship is headed. I think he is very confuse n does not know what he wants. He mentioned something like, he is not sure if this is good for him etc etc. He has doubt about us! This break only been going on for a few days, he called me twice! I miss him a lot, i wanted to call him so bad! It is just so hard to not think about him. Talking to him everyday on the phone at the end of the day has been part of my life, but now he just took it all back! I am not sure of what i should do!? This coming Monday it's his b-day, i don't think i am going to get him anything, i think i am just going to say happ b-day to him. Only purpose of that is, i just want to show him the difference, between friends and g-f. He needs to realize it n figure out which he likes more! But on the other hand, it is soo hard for me not to get him anything. I have this all planned out. it is so hurt that i can do it for him!! Please give me some advise on this! thanks! (If you need more background info on this, please let me know, i just try to briefly expalin this problem.....)

hurtingandconfused Established Member

hurtingandconfused

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He wants a break..give him a break and nothing else. Do not contact him give him his "space and time." Let him figure himself out.

LILUIL Established Member

LILUIL

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Sprinkle dear you are on the right track. Get busy with other things. Leave him alone..... why bother chasing after a confused man, that wont help.

 

erm, no harm in a nice birthday wish on the phone but dont get mushy or emotional. keep it plain and simple and then move on from there and take one day at a time. you only get one day at a time anyway.

 

keep a diary, it'll make you see yourself clearer.

 

if he cant make his own choices of what he wants, dont take it on yourself to decide for him, coz somewhere down the line he'll just resent you for it.

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