Bobby289 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 (edited) So as you know i sent a final email to my ex a few weeks back just saying I am letting go and the ball is in her court. Sent me a text today wanting to meet up and talk about personal items and other thing. I was short and blunt in my responses since im not sure if it is just a game or sincere. Not thinking its anything more than a meeting for those items, for my own sake. Mixed emotions about her right now as I have been trying the last month to let go, of course I still love her but also still am still hurt by her. Hummm Edited November 9, 2011 by Bobby289
ChelseaLS Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 So as you know i sent a final email to my ex a few weeks back just saying I am letting go and the ball is in her court. Sent me a text today wanting to meet up and talk about personal items and other thing. I was short and blunt in my responses since im not sure if it is just a game or sincere. Not thinking its anything more than a meeting for those items, for my own sake. Mixed emotions about her right now as I have been trying the last month to let go, of course I still love her but also still am still hurt by her. Hummm She probably is sincere about wanting to talk, but you said she wanted to talk about personal items... that could mean many different things. Guard your heart, but don't be rude. Keep a cool head.
Rorschach64 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 I would take this just about wanting to talk about the personal items...that's it. I say this because it is most likely that, I know we would love to look deeply in to something but we all know that only results in driving ourselves nuts. If she talks about the break up or anything like that...I would speculate it is highly likely a guilt dump not reconciliation. If it was reconciliation then I don't think she would be talking about item exchanges.
ChelseaLS Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 I would take this just about wanting to talk about the personal items...that's it. I say this because it is most likely that, I know we would love to look deeply in to something but we all know that only results in driving ourselves nuts. If she talks about the break up or anything like that...I would speculate it is highly likely a guilt dump not reconciliation. If it was reconciliation then I don't think she would be talking about item exchanges. It's true. Take it for word. Far to often we dig deeper for something that isn't there... I know, I do it all the time.
Author Bobby289 Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Yeah I'm not looking too much into it, just curious as to why she wants to meet up to talk about it instead of just text what exactly and drop them off. We don't have a lot to discuss other than if she wants to talk about where she stands and the items so who knows.
EgoJoe Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 No matter what she says or does. You go in strong and refuse to talk about the break up at this time. "Hey hows it going, stuff exchange, peace!" Don't be an emotional dumping ground or sounding board. Be cool.
Rorschach64 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 What ego joe said, also never reveal feelings if necessary...basically don't expose yourself unless you absolutely must.
Author Bobby289 Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Alright thanks all, Ill let ya'll know how it goes whenever it happens.
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