musicSaves12 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Well I've been thinking about this for some time now. I know she texted me when she was drunk about how much she loves and misses me. I know she then sent me one saying sorry about the drunk texts effectively taking back what she said the night before. We also didn't talk when we ran into each other at two different concerts (not a good time to talk to people anyway really) but I just can't shake the idea of trying to contact her to talk. I don't know if I should try the whole lets get coffee thing or should I just send her a short message/letter. Maybe I shouldn't do anything. I just want to try and plant the thought of what she has been missing out on not being with me. I know I can't get emotional if I do this and I have to accept that nothing may happen at all. Its been about a month and a half since I started NC so maybe its still too soon or maybe too late. Maybe I'm being stupid, at least I haven't let my emotions get the better of me so far. Have a great day everyone!
M2155 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Sounds right Lol. Did you just want someone to talk you out of doing what you know you shouldn't do? Cause you already know...
Author musicSaves12 Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 Lol. Did you just want someone to talk you out of doing what you know you shouldn't do? Cause you already know... Haha, yeah a lot of my posts are just my way of working out what I shouldn't do. That doesn't mean I may still try one day though but who knows. I'm still talking to other girls trying to move on just that stupid drunk text she sent me makes me think all the what if's (even though we didn't talk at the concerts). I'm pretty srue I could meet up with her but it would probably just end with her asking "are we friends now" and don't want that. Just keeping it cool.
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I just want to try and plant the thought of what she has been missing out on not being with me. If she knows what she is missing, she will call you. Simple. If you have to plant seeds to remind her of what she is missing, then you have your answer. Stay NC.
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