next?

[terminalmoraine]

I was dumped last May by someone I was with for 9 months. He said he didn't love me as much as I loved him. It was very sudden and in the middle of my exams.

 

We had absolute no contact from the night he dumped me until 4 months later in September when he text me out of the blue saying "Hey".

 

We arranged to meet up in November, one thing led to another. I was so upset and he left with me in tears. We sent a few texts back and forth but deep down I felt he was playing with my emotions.

 

I sent a text just after xmas. He replied but I don't know what changed but I decided not to contact him again. I was hurt.

 

I sent him a text in March this year when I felt in a better place to which I got no reply. I then sent a facebook friend request. He never accepted or declined it. I removed it after two months. The other day on facebook I noticed hes blocked me from being able to even view his profile (Bit strange considering we're not even friends on it).

 

I know he has a new girlfriend. I am happy for him. I think he is ignoring me and blocking me because when we slept together in the Nov he must have been dating her.

 

Should I try once more to be his friend and contact him or do you think I should give up?

 

Thanks

[immitable]

Do you know if he is with that girlfriend still? If so don't contact him.

The fact that he has contacted you before means he still has some feelings about you which could also mean he couldn't be with his gf anymore, maybe a rebound.

I think you sould wait a little if he is seeing someone else bc he is going to contact you then for sure when he is not dating her, or at least check if he is seeing someone else and if nt the case I'd say contact him.

[bittersweet memories]

I was dumped last May by someone I was with for 9 months. He said he didn't love me as much as I loved him. It was very sudden and in the middle of my exams.

 

We had absolute no contact from the night he dumped me until 4 months later in September when he text me out of the blue saying "Hey".

 

We arranged to meet up in November, one thing led to another. I was so upset and he left with me in tears. We sent a few texts back and forth but deep down I felt he was playing with my emotions.

 

I sent a text just after xmas. He replied but I don't know what changed but I decided not to contact him again. I was hurt.

 

I sent him a text in March this year when I felt in a better place to which I got no reply. I then sent a facebook friend request. He never accepted or declined it. I removed it after two months. The other day on facebook I noticed hes blocked me from being able to even view his profile (Bit strange considering we're not even friends on it).

 

I know he has a new girlfriend. I am happy for him. I think he is ignoring me and blocking me because when we slept together in the Nov he must have been dating her.

 

Should I try once more to be his friend and contact him or do you think I should give up?

 

Thanks

 

 

Don't contact him.. Stay away from him and move on.

[ChelseaLS]

Do you think you could be friends with him? Without opening up old wounds? Do you think it's worth a try even though he has been very unresponsive since Xmas last year?

 

I would personally move on.