MrSimple Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 My ex reinitiated contact with me, asking if I was attending the upcoming event this wkend and whether I will be participating in it. And here's the catch. She asked me to drop everything and accompany her for the day. 2 scenerios: 1: She was in a rebound, things didn't work out, and she's lonely and wants some company for the wkend. 2: She really wants to meet me and talk things out. Then again, I can't possibly drop everything just like that. I spent months preparing for it, and I ain't gonna give it up like that. On the other hand, I wanna give things a shot, see what she has to say. In the biggest roadblock I've faced since the start of NC. Appreciate any type of advice you guys can give thanks! (I really, really wanna get back with her, but not for the time being. She's too young to understand, so I will settle with helping her organise her life first. Then if fate wills it, maybe we will get back tgt, who knows?)
Author MrSimple Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 Any form of advice will help greatly, thank you!
norajane Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 I don't know why you broke up, but you very likely should stick to this: Then again, I can't possibly drop everything just like that. I spent months preparing for it, and I ain't gonna give it up like that. Why would you even contemplate turning your plans upside down for a random request from her without explanation of why she wants you to accompany her? Are you really seriously considering dropping everything that you spent months preparing for? That sounds especially foolish to me. Scenarios...could be neither 1 or 2. Could be she's just yanking your leash to see if you are still voluntarily attached to it.
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