LostWithoutYou Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 I just found out that my ex is talking to someone....what should I do? I still love her and wish one day we will be back together, one thing is that she still calls me but she doesn't know that I know she's talking with her new man...I'm so confused and heartbroken and it looks like my world just crumbling down on me. I don't know what to tell her nice time she calls, I want to wish her the best and just end it and ask her not to call me any more....please help....
hurtingandconfused Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Need some advice? How about you tell her that you want to end the friendship and ask her not to call you. Why would you want to find out if your ex was seeing someone else?? I'm so confused and heartbroken and it looks like my world just crumbling down on me. You know how they say that life is always in its ups and downs. Well this is your down hopefully soon it will come up. Best of luck.
LILUIL Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Originally posted by LostWithoutYou I just found out that my ex is talking to someone....what should I do? I still love her and wish one day we will be back together, one thing is that she still calls me but she doesn't know that I know she's talking with her new man...I'm so confused and heartbroken and it looks like my world just crumbling down on me. I don't know what to tell her nice time she calls, I want to wish her the best and just end it and ask her not to call me any more....please help.... first of all when you say ex, you have to realise that it's an agreement between you and her that its over between the two of you. looks like she's just staying in touch with you.... friends. its an awful word for you to swallow and i feel for you. so, she has the right to see whomever she wants and it shows she wants to move on. she has moved on, accept it, no matter how hard the truth is, ask her not to contact you anymore if that helps you to carry on with your life. let her do whatever makes her happy and you should start making some happy decisions for your life too.
Author LostWithoutYou Posted May 22, 2004 Author Posted May 22, 2004 thanks everyone...I was thinking for closure on my part, next time she calls should I tell her... "By now, you should know how I feel about you. I love you with all my heart and it hurts me alot because we're not together and hearing your voice makes it even harder. I always have hopes in us getting back together everytime you called but its been 3 months now and you're still there and I'm still here. I wish you the best in pursueing happyiness in your endeavors. Please don't call me no more because I feel like riding a train to nowhere and riding it over and over again. If you said you loved me, please let me go."
LILUIL Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 wait... hold your horses..... that sounds a bit needy. you dont actually need to announce you are moving on.... just move on.... dont call her anymore from this second forth. why do you wanna call and tell her that...... my opinion anyway.
Author LostWithoutYou Posted May 22, 2004 Author Posted May 22, 2004 I mean, I don't want to call her...next time that she calls...I just want to end this and not draggin it on...
colleen26 Posted May 27, 2004 Posted May 27, 2004 No, do not tell her you love her etc. Do not tell her anything because you do not owe that to her. You have always been there for her and told her how you fell and all that and where or what did it get you? Do what I did and I tried both ways but this way makes me feel better. Just end the relationship with out explanation, make her flippn' wonder and think and worry for a chnage and there you go you can move on telling yourself that she has no idea what happened and it will eat her up not knowing but give you that tad bit of satisfaction I know your aching for. It will make you feel better and this way you do not look weak and or desperate for her. Your life will progress with or with out her but it will progress a lot slower if you keep the relationship going.... Just end it and make her wonder and first of all I know you are not together but I know that you are upset she is seeing or talking to someone else, it kind of makes you feel as though you did not matter enough for her to be moving on so soon I get that but hey it is her problem or thing to worry about not yours just take my advise because it has made me feel so much better and I feel as though I was the one that decided rather then him... It has been 5 days for me and honestly I did try both ways with telling him no I can't be your friend etc. but that did not hold up but this has I swear because it makes me feel so damn good to know that he this time does not know what happened, **** he probably thinks I am with someone else now, I hope he does anyway because it will eat him up and thats the key they just don't know what is really going on if you do it this way.... Let me know if you want to talk more..
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