josem Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 If you're trying to figure out how to get back your ex girl then you've got one serious pickle on your hands my friend. Your situation is one which is likely fraught with a great deal of intense emotions. When human beings become overly emotional not much room is left for reason, and our actions hardly make any sense at all, almost as if we didn't actually care about our own happiness!But of course we don't just want to discuss theory here, we want to figure out how to actually get your girlfriend back. The first thing you must absolutely understand if you are to succeed in your goal is that you mustn't make it obvious to her that you intend to win her back. This might seem counterintuitive: "If she doesn't know I want to get back with her then how is it ever going to happen?", you might wonder. That's a good point, but remember we don't want to try to think too much in logical terms. Our problem isn't anything like the typical problems we face in life, which are usually encased in a logical framework. Our dilemma is all about human psychology and emotion, and in order to be able to come out as winners, regaining happiness in the process, we need to play ball with the world of human emotion... I know you'll more than likely be tempted to call her or text her pretty much every day: after all, it's a perfectly reasonable situation if she's what you think about the most of the day. However, it's crucially important that you resist these temptations at all times. Give her some space, let her do her own soul searching in her own time. What's equally important is that when you do get back in contact with her, which by the way shouldn't be too long a time after the initial break up, that you present yourself as a somewhat different person from the one she broke up with.
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