nyckidd Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 My ex of 2 1/2 years broke up with me a little over a month now. I fully understand all the reasons that the relationship failed so I wont bore you with details! We had talked a couple times after the breakup and even had sex(bad idea, trust me). Each time she was nice to me and talked a lot but wasn't open to restarting the relationship. She even told me multiple times that she missed and loved me so much but she just had to do this. So the day after I saw her I find out that she is talking to some guy and the've gone out together, and have pictures together etc. etc. I took this as a low blow because we had only been broken up 2 weeks, and she was just telling me she loved me. Needless to say I got angry but controlled myself and stayed silent. I decided to just move on and heal and fix myself for the next relationship. WE HAD BEEN IN NC for 2 1/2 weeks and things were getting better. Yesterday she text me and said hey I hope you dont mind me texting you but today is the 7th(we started dating on the 7th) and I was thinking about you and I hope your day is going well, and I hope everything's been good, and I hope your family is good too . It kind of set me back and made me mad again that she would text me so friendly as if everything was Ok (I don't think shes aware that I know about that other guy.) I was going to text her back and tell her to leave me the heck alone and please don't bother initiating any contact. I would have been all for it, but after I found out what I did there is no way I will remain apart of her life in anyway. Do you guys think I did the right thing by just ignoring her? Or should I have responded and let her know not to contact me in any way shape or form. Thanks!
LSgirl Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Yes, you did the right thing. Keep ignoring her, there's no need to respond to that. Plus, she's with somebody else! Don't give her the comfort of still responding to her when she's moved on.
josem Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 You know what you've done something wrong because you even take time to listen her explanation about that guy...maybe we don't know that guy is her friend,close family relatives or her elder brother. You better listen to her first before deciding..
Author nyckidd Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 You know what you've done something wrong because you even take time to listen her explanation about that guy...maybe we don't know that guy is her friend,close family relatives or her elder brother. You better listen to her first before deciding.. I know 100% that its her friends brother and they are dating
nu464 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 My ex lives about an hour away, so I don't see him around that often. It's just whenever I check my phone, I wanna call him or text him. How to force myself to ignore him, until I'm ready. We had an argument and he hit me, I immediately told him we couldn't be together and I texted him once, to ask him to return my keys etc. He ignored that text. How to full on ignore him, without getting tempted to communicate.
Author nyckidd Posted November 21, 2011 Author Posted November 21, 2011 My ex lives about an hour away, so I don't see him around that often. It's just whenever I check my phone, I wanna call him or text him. How to force myself to ignore him, until I'm ready. We had an argument and he hit me, I immediately told him we couldn't be together and I texted him once, to ask him to return my keys etc. He ignored that text. How to full on ignore him, without getting tempted to communicate. Wow so he hit you, and now he wont even respond to your text? Sorry to hear what your going through but you will be fine. Cut him out entirely. He will realize what a mistake he made one day, and when he does you will have the pleasure of denying him. And if he doesn't...then hes just inhumane and you should be happy that you are not apart of that anymore.
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