lostsoul123 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 i started NC 4 weeks ago and since week #1 she have been emailing me from time to time saying all type of stuff ....basically ''sorry and i missed you'' bla bla..... on week 4 she did it on a daily basis..... i never answer any of the emails until yesterday giving her my condolenses about a grandmother of her that pass away. she responded almost inmediatly saying some stuff i dint like i get angry and CALLED HER !! we began talkin and i ask her to give me something she have of me .... but then asked her not to ever contact me again she did wrong to me and then emails me all this is?? is stupid how a girl is slutty around but then have the courage to still contact me saying she cant stop thinking about me . i feel like a had to break NC for stoping these breadcrums who got to a point that i get used to it ...i was running to my email every second to hear from her....it has to stop today is day number 1 AGAIN...i feell horrible!!!! please give opinions
lymtal1 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 so here is what you do if you really want to stop her. block her from everything you can. email and every social network that you are on. change your phone number. those that need it you can give to them. stay away from mutual friends that can update you and her. tell them why and they will understand right now. yes these are to the extreme but very effective. this is about you healing and moving on. your success with no contact requires this if you really want to completely fall of the face of the earth to her. some may think extreme but it works. and n/c means that you can't get anything from her as well. do a search on no contact on this site as this is very good information. there is a great post that will help you with the details. follow them. just my thoughts, good luck.
ChelseaLS Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 She's seriously messing with your mind and I completely understand why you broke NC... I would feel like loosing it on her too. However I must agree with lymtal1... if you want her gone and the breadcrumbs are driving you crazy, block her, and distance yourself from mutual friends. You were doing fantastic with NC for 4 weeks, so I think you should be fine implementing these new ways. NC to heal your heart and soul.
Author lostsoul123 Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 i feel like i accepted an invitation to hell ( i feel with extreme urge to call her talk to her. (
Author lostsoul123 Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 why i feel im not enough ...ugly, some trash human being.
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