Makavelli Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Hello, I am relatively new to the forums but I have a bit of an issue I would like to discuss on attempting to get my ex back. I moved from Missouri to Texas to be with this girl, we were together 4 years and she ended the relationship on October 18, 2011. I just turned 27 and she is almost 25, I am white and she is Mexican, I don't know why I mentioned that I am just trying to give as much information as possible. The txt message ended everything, I haven't heard from her since. I talk to her dad alot, her family really can't get involved in the situation so I have no doorways there. Her dad asked her once though " what did he do for you not to even talk to him, and she did not even give a reply. I have sent letters with no response, and the sad part is I do not remember doing anything bad, I know our lives were stressful for the month of October like real stressfull and it maybe had an impact on our relationship. I was invited over for Thinksgiving and I am weirded out by it, I almost think she won't be there... This happening brought my self esteem down to zero... I have been working out 7 days a week, and on a no carb diet since the day of the break up and I still can't get her off my mind. I traded my car in, got an Infiniti G35 (used) got colored contacts to emerald, im not a bad looking guy and plan to be an RN. I just want her back and I cannot figure out why I never get a response from her not even in a letter... I feel like im loosing hope sometimes... is 3 weeks really that long>?
ChelseaLS Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Three weeks feels like FOREVER... but no its not that long. Unfortunately you will never know what the issue is unless she decides to one day open up... but that can't be forced. That is weird about Thanksgiving. I would be curious if her family was trying to get you back together. I personally would politely decline and tell them thank you, but that you don't want to put her in an awkward situation. Give her time and space and perhaps she will respond... in time. Perhaps she won't. Keep doing what you are doing, maybe start to cut ties with her family, as I am sure that is like salt in the wound (you could even gently explain this to them). Keep working on you. Good luck.
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