Niagara Falls Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 what kind of response are you looking for from a girl when commenting her on normal things like saying shes pretty for a basic example. the response i can think of range from: laughing and saying thanks laughing and making an awww sound? saying thanks and smiling. not acknowledging your compliment (this seems like an obvious indication of disintrest) so my question is. what does mean when girls give a small light hearted laugh? what kind of response are you looking for to tell if a girl is interested in you?
KR10N Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Some women, like myself, don't like to hear such compliments. Even if a guy were truly interested in me I wouldn't want to hear about how much he thinks I'm pretty, etc. So, it may not always have something to do w/ her not being interested. Some people just laugh because they're flattered or embarrassed.
Author Niagara Falls Posted November 9, 2011 Author Posted November 9, 2011 thats understandable. but past basic compliments, im not too sure how to flirt with girls, im just not good at it i guess. im not awkward or weird or anything when talking to girls, i can hold very good conversations, it just always lands me in the friend zone. im not sure how to show interest without coming off as awkward. i just cant see it in my head, and when i dont understand something i avoid it. any suggestions for that?
Eddie Edirol Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 thats understandable. but past basic compliments, im not too sure how to flirt with girls, im just not good at it i guess. im not awkward or weird or anything when talking to girls, i can hold very good conversations, it just always lands me in the friend zone. im not sure how to show interest without coming off as awkward. i just cant see it in my head, and when i dont understand something i avoid it. any suggestions for that? Have you dont any research on how to attract women? So that you know how to talk to them that wouldnt land you in the friendzone?
unknownsources Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I could never stand airheads...not even for sex. Fortunately there aren't as many airheads as we sometimes think. Most gals are quite interesting if you can tap into their brain. Hell for me, even friendship with people (guys and girls) can't be done with airheads. There's something wonderful about some sort of intelligent conversation that seems to be a bit far-fetched for a lot of people in my generation. More likely is a conversation about how "hilarious" and "genius" Family Guy and American Dad were last night....
Author Niagara Falls Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Have you dont any research on how to attract women? So that you know how to talk to them that wouldnt land you in the friendzone? in fact I have, but they mostly say the same old thing over and over. and the only girls i seem to be able to get are the ones who are initially attracted to me, im pretty average looking, if not a bit better, but the only girls ive dated/hooked up with showed had interest in me from the get go, and from there its just easy. do girls always have a pre determined decision on what they want from a guy when they first see him(based on looks)? or is it up in the air and you actually have to work at it to get her to be attracted to you as a person? thats where i dont have the ability
unknownsources Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I'm a science and nature nerd. Check out 'Meet Up' groups in your area. I belong to hiking clubs, a birdwatching group, an eco club, book reading group etc. 75 % of the members are female and 90% of them enjoy intelligent conversation. If you are a girl: Nice to know you exist. If you are a dude: well, I wouldn't date ya but a non-Family Guy/American Dad conversation wouldn't be unwelcome haha. ...can't be done with airheads. Let me revise this: As I had my semi-monthly candy fix that I get when I go grocery shopping, I realized I do like one kind of Airhead -> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AirHeads_(candy)
lostcharm Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I will always acknowledge a compliment because I dont want to be rude but honestly? Interested or not, I always have the same response: smile and say thank you
Feelin Frisky Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I don't compliment strangers or even women I've just met very much. It is actually self-indulgent and considerate only of yourself and your feelings and women don't see that as a compliment as much as a tell-tale sign of a dweeb.
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