ShannonMI Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Yeah, they could date. PM him Shannon, as he's not going to PM you. Then tell him to lighten the f*ck up and you'll give him a chance. You're right. He would never PM me. Wuss:rolleyes:
Wolf18 Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 You should see a doctor about that. What's the doctor going to do, give me a BJ?
carhill Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 Do all men get crabby / moody when they don't have sex for a while? By a while, I mean like five days. Does it keep them up at night? Or is this sexual manipulation? I've noted a marked connection, especially during long periods of celibacy. I recall, a little over a year ago, a MW telling me directly that 'you need sex; you deserve sex'. My response was 'yes, that's reasonable and hopefully someday I'll meet an available woman to have it with'. OP, if you're in a relationship, presuming it's an intimate and sexual one, it's normal and healthy to regularly engage in sex within that relationship. Otherwise, presuming you're hetero and female, you might as well be having a relationship with a girlfriend. That said, each of us has a sexual 'style', relevant to both the mechanics and frequency of sexual contact, and it's important that those styles be compatible, otherwise one or both parties will end up frustrated and hurt and, generally, the relationship will end.
phineas Posted November 9, 2011 Posted November 9, 2011 What's the doctor going to do, give me a BJ? Hell of a medical plan if she did.
joystickd Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I went 3 years without sex. That was after my first time. I was a bitter mess then. The woman I had sex with played head games and ruined a connection I had with another female and was kind of saying I had a chance with her when in reality she was seeing a woman. In addition I had got laid off from my job. I spent about 3 months in my room only coming out to eat or go to the bathroom. Then I found the motivation to go back to school. After that I had sex with a coworker at a facility I worked at in the parking lot. I have a new job and its been a month since then. I actually stopped having sex with that woman to date another woman that was at my previous job. That didn't work out I was kind of upset because I stopped having sex with that woman just to attempt to have sex with another. I know what you are thinking and I should have kept having sex with one and started doing the other one too.
ffw Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I know what you are thinking and I should have kept having sex with one and started doing the other one too. Yup, you read my mind
OpenBook Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 IMO, It depends on a situation. If he has no woman next to him, he is fine. Anyway, If he needs sex, he can have it with himself. But, If he has a sexy, sedactive woman who likes him next to him, he has rightful expectations to have sex. It will keep him up at night if a woman plays with his brains in this way. Excuse the pun? :lmao: Too cute! Your post made me giggle. Thanks. Hell of a medical plan if she did. :lmao: Another good one! Which leads to another question. Does a lack of ejaculation (or an abundance of it? I really have no idea) sharpen a man's wit?
Nexus One Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 (edited) You do know this is complete and utter rubbish, right? Even if you never ejaculate your body emits sperm (well, predominantly, semen) from your body each and every night. You can not 'fill up' or 'explode'. Nowhere in my post did I say that. If you've read carefully then you see I mentioned that "not unloading sperm" will NOT do any damage, as opposed to not urinating. With not unloading I mean "not masturbating" or "not having sex". It is perfectly natural to ejaculate rarely. Your body is absolutely fine with it. Regular ejaculation might carry health benefits, but not doing it certainly doesn't carry negative implications for your mind or body. Perhaps, yet over 90% of men masturbate. I'm not going to abstain, let alone up to the point that I only allow myself to climax due to wet dreams, like you are implying/suggesting by saying it is perfectly natural. But of course, like most men, you perpetuate such myths because they manipulate women into 'taking care' of your 'sexual needs'. Bullsh*t, I had no such intention or motivation. I was talking about masturbation, not about manipulating women into thinking that they need to please their man twice a day. You completely misinterpreted my post. I wish more men could just be honest with themselves and women - you want sex, and you want to come, because it feels good. But don't try and dress that desire up as a profound psychological & physiological need, because that's bunk. I don't know if it's a need per se, I just know that if I don't then I feel like I described in that reply. Besides, over 90% of men masturbate, so don't play that game. What you're talking about is a minority of men that doesn't feel a need to unload. Can I ask you something? Do you only allow yourself to climax in wet dreams? If so, then you are in the minority, not me. Edited November 10, 2011 by Nexus One
oaks Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 What's the doctor going to do, give me a BJ? Maybe the doctor will tell you not to exaggerate your symptoms, but if not having sex physically hurts then something is wrong.
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