khele2k Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 Playing hard to get right away just seems so foreign to me. I do the exact opposite. I flirt right away and just have fun with it. Its playful and definitely works, plus both myself and the girls have a lot of fun at the same time. So I guess I'm looking for an opinion from somebody who's been successful at playing hard to get right away. How do you pull it off? Is it even fun to go out with that vibe?
doushenka Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I'm an incorrigible flirt, too. Better to flirt with the understanding that it might not go anywhere than to annoy someone by pursuing them once they've said they're not interested. "Hard to get" is hard to read because what if it's a genuine brushoff? Just don't take that chance. Take "no" at face value. The people who like that game will learn pretty quickly that you don't play it.
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