Asian_Hunnie Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Ugh, and you speak for all Asian women? Has it ever occurred to you it's not about race but your personality??
Jane2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 (edited) Agree with PlumPrincess. There's no getting around improving your status if you want a higher caliber woman. I remember in the years when I had no college degree, I used to think people (men) with college degrees were wrong not to like me anyway. But nothing would change that point of "inferiority" for me except actually getting a degree myself. The two Hispanic guys I dated who had no college degree...I dated them when I myself had no college degree. Later, when I was in school, I dated another Hispanic guy who had no degree, and I have to say, I didn't respect him. It wasn't just that he wasn't into education, though. I wouldn't have been that into him anyway, I don't think, based on his personality, but the fact that he had no formal education reinforced my not liking him. I was in love with and in a 5 year relationship with a Hispanic guy who had a college degree and was articulate, handsome, etc. I also was very much into another Hispanic guy who was working on his degree. College degrees really aren't the point, though. At least not solely. You could have no degree and still be liked by women if you exude self-liking and lack of needing approval. People don't fall for degrees or level of education. I've had guys say to me that it's great that I have a Master's degree and they even admire it, but they still dump me for a girl who's a sophomore in college or just has a Bachelor's, etc. Education still might be something you try to improve about yourself anyway, though, if only because it's a factor that makes you feel less good about yourself (if you don't have it, I mean). You need every point of confidence you can get, if only to make up for areas of confidence you can't change. Like, for me, I hate being petite. But I'm never gonna change my height. So I work on the things I can change so that I have only five things working against me instead of ten or twenty. Edited November 11, 2011 by Jane2011
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 ( later they found he was the manager and made 3 figures... Dude, that is the equivalent to the wage you earn in PRISON. Nobody wants to date somebody who earns less than $1000 a year. (on the bright side, at least he's the "manager" )
Author quietGuy13 Posted November 12, 2011 Author Posted November 12, 2011 Dude, that is the equivalent to the wage you earn in PRISON. Nobody wants to date somebody who earns less than $1000 a year. (on the bright side, at least he's the "manager" ) Sheesh.. you haven't noticed i make mistakes??? I meant 6 figures
elias2k2 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I'm Hispanic and I'm not trying to brag here, but i know a lot of females and dated quite a few. My girlfriend is Japanese and it is a culture clash, but it's not as difficult as it sounds man. In truth the reality is that women are materialistic and they want better things in life especially if they come from a family that raises them that way. If you are not weak you will get the girl. Shyness, thinking about race and all that bs is unnecessary. In the end the problem that you have is culture problem and the fact that you seem like you don't like yourself. Women pay close attention to details and they see things that we can't see. As a man there's a way to carry yourself in which you are cool. Thats where guys like you screw up. If a woman sees any weakness in you she will naturally see you as less and it doesn't matter how much money you make and what race you are. I have dated sexy white women that I never though i had a chance with and im still friends with some of them. Dude we should have a chat I'll give you some tips. Send me a private message.
kaylan Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 People want to date people they have things in common with. As a software engineer, I'm going to have very little to talk about with someone who works at a grocery store and spends most of his free time skateboarding. (Not exactly your example, but it's an example of why a relationship in my personal experience didn't work out.) It doesn't matter what race I am or what race he is. If he's not on the same level as me and doesn't have the same interests, there's no point wasting both of our time with something that ultimately won't work out. Even the reverse is true. Not many educated and successful men are going to be going after a woman who hands them their food across the deli counter. (Unless the woman is gorgeous. But I doubt a really attractive man would have much problem getting dates in that situation either.) And all that aside, you don't have to be "the club type". You do have to have something to bring to the table though. Enjoying sitting around your house and never talking to anyone isn't attractive to most people of either sex. It's also hard to meet people when you don't get out and do things. So start getting out and looking for women who are interested in the things you like or try to change yourself into the type of person you think women want. The first is easier, but the second is always an option. ^This. Ive said this in several threads to people. Folks date those who are similar to them and share things in common with them.
YaOldBuckaroo Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I'm latino. and i'm not the typical party type. I'm quiet, shy, bad speaker. unsuccessful ( but trying to find jobs and get better BUT apparently that doesn't matter to women) I"ve been noticing that alot of white women and asian women are super educated with degrees etc and they would never ever date me. From what i got from women in dating sites and in real life..Educated White and Asian women either want White guys, or Guys who are CEOs etc of high tech companies. Fact is most White and Asian women seem to think nowadays that guys have to have TECH CMPUTER/ENGINEEERING type of jobs to be any worth. Even saw Anderson cooper show, and the women made fun and did not want to even make smalltalk with the guy at the Meat department just cause of the kind of job he had ( later they found he was the manager and made 3 figures.. but they didn't even want to find more about him just because of his job) **** Time and time again, i've also heard how these Educated women love guys who have social lives. It seems high social life is very important to these women because usually that's the kind of men that are wealthy and living the life of luxury. They want to travel, they want to be outgoing and have that kind of lifestyle. That's why, whenever you see Asians or White women with latinos.. the guy is a typical club type guy. When have you ever seen A highly educated Asian or White woman with a poor laborer latino..? who by the way works really hard....apparently that doesn't matter. Women, just want high teckie type Entrepeneurs or whatever....cause in this modern society that's the image of success that is pushed onto them. The other thing is that they're embarrased about mingling with Latinos who don't fit the stereotype of a true American--> Great english, great social skills..perfect or fluent english. Well even if they guys are not english speakers, as long as they speak their native language perfectly and fluently..women won't feel as embarrased about dating that guy. They feel embarrased if their guy is like me, slow...and bad speaker. ANyways, I've been trying to find Asian GF or an American GF but from what i've seen it's kind of impossible. PS. well it's the same for latina girls and black girls. They too care too much about the guy's job and his social status. But I'm just saing about White and Asians cause they're typically the ones that get more higher education and have higher economic level....and i just feel they think i'm crap. Hey quietguy13 I think I've replied to a similar post you made a few days ago. Anyhow, the way you're thinking needs to be changed completely. Don't get me wrong, but the way you express what's going on has too much negativity, and reflects poor social value. Women like men not just for their money and jobs, but for their ability to socially interact with both women and men, display good confidence, has personal worth, and more. These things show high social value, which makes a man that seemingly has next to nothing, appear more attractive. Here's an article that'll help you beat your problem: http://www.scribd.com/doc/4654457/Attract-Women-With-4-Routines-From-Black-Belt-Seduction Max
PlumPrincess Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 http://www.scribd.com/doc/4654457/Attract-Women-With-4-Routines-From-Black-Belt-Seduction Awful tips. It recommends you to paint a triangle with funny symbols on your hand to create mystery. You're supposed to make women believe with this stuff that you are going to a mysterious exclusive party thus raising your social value. :lmao:
kaylan Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 ^I could see that working for a man or woman in conversation a little. If a girl had that on her hand Id ask why, and then be curious of where the party was, and how cool it was. It wouldnt get her any points if I wasnt attracted to her to begin with. I think a woman would say the same. Plus if I found out she made it up, Id think of her as a kinda lame.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 It's possible. But why go only after whites and Asian? There are many educated Latino girls no?
PlumPrincess Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 It's possible. But why go only after whites and Asian? There are many educated Latino girls no? Don't encourage him to hit on women with whom he will have an infinitesimal chance?! Tell him to get a grip on his own life.
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