ama14 Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 I just discovered my boyfriend on a "social networking" site that promotes flirting, and stuff. He isnt listed as single but he is also not listed as in a relationship. I dont know what to do and am kind of freaking out. I cant just go and ask him about it because i didnt just stumble on it, i was snooping. We have been together for a while now 6 years. and have had ups and downs but the last 2 years have been wonderful. In the past he has broken up with me and then wanted me back. He has the Grass is greener on the other side syndrom i think. Deep down i think I know what I need to do, but I have no where to go, and i am soooo in love with him. it hurts to even think about. Please someone give me some advice.
wilsonx Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 6 year relationship, there shouldnt be any secrets, no such things as snooping. Communication with personal boundaries is key "Hey I was going through somethings and I found you on this site. I feel.... " and talk about how you feel that you found him there and discuss it and take ownership of your feelings
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