Rockyr87 Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 So 2 months ago my ex and I split cause I made a lot really bad decisions. She pretty much told me how it was and quit talking to me and blocked me on facebook. Then two weeks ago I get a text from her out of the blue asking how I was doing. We had a real light conversation about school and stuff and then I didn't hear from her for a while. Then the week after she added me on facebook, which I also found to be a little odd. Since then we've been real friendly with each other and all that good stuff. As far as I can tell she isn't seeing anyone else or if she is she's keeping it really quiet. I don't text her all the time, but a lot of times when I do and she doesn't reply I feel like she just doesn't want to talk to me. The thing that makes it hard to tell is that she's a first year law student and sometimes I have a hard time distinguishing between her being busy and subtly telling me she doesn't want to talk. Yesterday though I'd called her and left a voicemail and she called me back later and we had a really fun, light-hearted conversation and we laughed about so many things. It almost felt like talking to her before we broke up. Then last night before I went to bed I noticed she posted a lovey-dovey kinda status on facebook. To me it seemed a bit coincidental after the way I'd talked to her that day. Maybe I'm looking to much into that little detail, but it just kinda jumped off the page at me. What do you guys think? If there's any details I need to add just tell me and I will.
toosoft Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 Be still! Let the evidence gather and if the relationship is ment to happen, it will naturally. Dont read into things too much at the moment, be cool!
Author Rockyr87 Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 Haha yeah I know. A few of my friends said I should just ask her..would that be a bad idea?
ChelseaLS Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 Haha yeah I know. A few of my friends said I should just ask her..would that be a bad idea? I think it is a bit too early to ask her. I will agree, be still and let the evidence pile. Don't want to smother the last embers.
Author Rockyr87 Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 What should I do in the meantime though? I feel like saying nothing makes it seem like I'm not interested and saying too much is obviously a bad idea. Like I said in my OP, it's tough to tell if she wants to talk to me or not since she's so busy. The phone call I had with her just seemed to speak volumes.
Author Rockyr87 Posted November 17, 2011 Author Posted November 17, 2011 I hate saying this..mostly cause I never do, but I kinda gave up
flitzanu Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 What should I do in the meantime though? I feel like saying nothing makes it seem like I'm not interested and saying too much is obviously a bad idea. Like I said in my OP, it's tough to tell if she wants to talk to me or not since she's so busy. The phone call I had with her just seemed to speak volumes. you're reading too much into everything. she dumped you from what i gather, and cut communication, and now just came back full force and you're just allowing her to throw you into friend zone. right now that's what you are, her friend. don't be available, and quit reading into things. if she wants you, she should be telling you.
Author Rockyr87 Posted November 17, 2011 Author Posted November 17, 2011 Can't say I feel like much of a friend when she pretty much never talks to me :/
EgoJoe Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Stop initiating and be aloof when she does. Her intentions will be revealed in her ACTIONS following this behavior from you.
Zabs Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Stop initiating and be aloof when she does. Her intentions will be revealed in her ACTIONS following this behavior from you. Give yourself some credit!! What does your gut say? We all KNOW the answer but sometimes DON'T want to SEE it. People cannot hide true feelings for long..it is an inevitable fact of being human... If you love her..wait...if not jog on and if something happens...be cool Zabs xx;)
Author Rockyr87 Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 I still have feelings for her. I thought for a while she felt the same way, but now it's starting to dissipate since she doesn't really make an effort to talk to me. Just seems kinda pointless now
flitzanu Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I still have feelings for her. I thought for a while she felt the same way, but now it's starting to dissipate since she doesn't really make an effort to talk to me. Just seems kinda pointless now because it is pointless. if she's not making effort, then find someone who WANTS to talk to you.
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