Author danmorisson Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 Yes and that ugly guy would have to be a millionaire or something. But he/she will never truly love you. Love aint possible without physical attraction. And if I were some A list actor I would turn them all down.
Metis Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 There was a guy in my high school who was of average height, overweight, and definitely below average looks-wise. Yet he got more dates than a porcupine has quills, and wherever he is today, I'm sure one could find him by following the trail of vanquished supermodels. He could get into any girl's pants. Hell, come to think of it, he could get into any teacher's pants, too, if he wanted. What was it about him? He was unbelievably brilliant (graduated as a valedictorian, in fact), yet he could hold an intelligent conversation without making the other person feel small. Even if he paid attention to you for only a few minutes, during that short time, you'd feel like the most important person in the world to him. Even now, I honestly think he was the most charming and the most seductive man I've ever met. I remember one day he started chatting with me in the library, when the librarian snickered thereby: "Girlfriend number three hundred and twenty seven?" "Miss Shriber," he replied, "Every one of my girlfriends is number one." I think that was his secret, in a nutshell.
Wolf18 Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 ^ What country do you live in Metis, where guys who hang out at the Library and overweight Valedictorian's are chick magnets? And if the latter is even real (I doubt it), what kind of car did he have and how rich were his parents? I knew a guy who was sort of like the one you claim to know, but his parents were filthy rich and he had a brand new Mercedes S-Class for his 17th birthday.
Author danmorisson Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 Then these women must've found him physically attractive. Believe it or not, I could actually date a 400+ pound woman. Now you could turn around and say 'Gross! He doesn't care about looks' But I do. I only find some 400+ pound women physically attractive. And I could call you ugly because you're not as hot as Gleorge Clooney (if that's how you spell it). But does that mean you're really ugly? No! It's just means you're not as hot as George Clooney.
dasein Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 Just try this little experiment...you ask 100 guys what their ideal women would be, and chances are, the ideal woman would be very similar for all of them...if you ask 100 women the same question, you'll likely get a ton more variance. Don't know about "ideals" but ask 100 guys what a "dateable" or even "doable" woman is physically, and you will get a list that starts out with "not overweight," and then tapers off really fast. Many will stop at that one finger. Ask 100 women what is a "dateable" or "doable" man? Bet most will exhaust at least five fingers counting before starting to taper off... at least. Amirite? OP, it's a given reality, but not "everyone," and not "only." Rant about it, fine, then go out and get what YOU want and forget what everyone cares about.
Metis Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 ^ What country do you live in Metis, where guys who hang out at the Library and overweight Valedictorian's are chick magnets?The good old US of A. I'll admit our school was a bit unusual, though. And if the latter is even real (I doubt it), what kind of car did he have and how rich were his parents? He didn't have a car. He took a bus to school. I don't know how rich his parents were, but I suspect not particularly, since they were recent immigrants. In any event, he lived with his grandmother and wore second-hand Fair Isle sweaters.
Author danmorisson Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 @Dasein No don't do that! Be a bit more specific about it! Look up a girl named 'SupaThick Mami' and ask all the men where you live if they would date her
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