Where are all the girls at?

[I have no name]

Hey I’m new here.

 

I’m kind of frustrated with my dating life right now. I have no problem getting girls numbers and going on dates. The only problem is the only places where I seem to have any success is at bars and clubs. I know most people don’t recommend the bar scene but it’s the place where I’m most comfortable at (a few drinks don’t hurt) and it’s basically been the main place where I’ve had luck with approaching girls. If I go out with my friends on the weekend, I typically get a few numbers and a date for the following week. Unfortunately the type of girls that I generally meet there are not what I’m looking for right now. Don’t get me wrong, I very much enjoy my time with these girls but I really would like a more serious relationship and I’m starting to realize I’m going to have to look elsewhere. The girls that I meet there are for the most part immature and aren’t looking for anything long term.

 

The thing is, I am really struggling to figure out where I can get a girlfriend. The main places to meet girls in my opinion are:

 

-school/work: Well I’m out of school and there are really no options at or around my work

-through friends: Unfortunately I’ve tried to be set up but my social network is kind of small right now and there’s not much to work with

-Random places (ie. Coffee shop, mall): These types of places rarely work for me because I’m not great at approaching random girls (unless it’s in the bar scene).

 

I really can’t think of any other places to meet girls. I don’t have time to join any clubs or anything like that at the moment. So to make a long story short, where are all the girls at? Where can I find some success meeting girls? Any advice?

 

Thanks

Edited November 7, 2011 by I have no name

[skippercollector]

The totally uncool American Midwest has a much larger female-to-male ratio than anywhere else on the planet.

[oaks]

I don’t have time to join any clubs or anything like that at the moment.

 

So how are you going to have time to date a girl when you find one?

 

What are you doing with your time?

[jobaba]

Hey I’m new here.

 

I’m kind of frustrated with my dating life right now. I have no problem getting girls numbers and going on dates. The only problem is the only places where I seem to have any success is at bars and clubs. I know most people don’t recommend the bar scene but it’s the place where I’m most comfortable at (a few drinks don’t hurt) and it’s basically been the main place where I’ve had luck with approaching girls. If I go out with my friends on the weekend, I typically get a few numbers and a date for the following week. Unfortunately the type of girls that I generally meet there are not what I’m looking for right now. Don’t get me wrong, I very much enjoy my time with these girls but I really would like a more serious relationship and I’m starting to realize I’m going to have to look elsewhere. The girls that I meet there are for the most part immature and aren’t looking for anything long term.

 

The thing is, I am really struggling to figure out where I can get a girlfriend. The main places to meet girls in my opinion are:

 

-school/work: Well I’m out of school and there are really no options at or around my work

-through friends: Unfortunately I’ve tried to be set up but my social network is kind of small right now and there’s not much to work with

-Random places (ie. Coffee shop, mall): These types of places rarely work for me because I’m not great at approaching random girls (unless it’s in the bar scene).

 

I really can’t think of any other places to meet girls. I don’t have time to join any clubs or anything like that at the moment. So to make a long story short, where are all the girls at? Where can I find some success meeting girls? Any advice?

 

Thanks

 

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