nicolep1016 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 So I was seeing this guy for about a month. Over the weekend, we got into a fight over something stupid and broke up. It was kind of a mutual thing. The problem is that I have not stop thinking about him and have come to the realization that I have fallen in love with him in a very short time. I know it might not seem possible, but it's true. I have been so depressed the last few days which is not normal for me because I get like this for NO ONE. I didn't even get upset when I got divorced. I don't know what to do because I don't want to look like a stalker and text him. I haven't heard from him at all in 2 days. I have a movie that he lent me and I was gonna text him and ask him if he wanted it back but that would probably sound lame and obvious, right? He would just text me if he wanted it back I guess. Any suggestions?
zengirl Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 You dated this guy for a month, so calling him 'the love of your life' might be a little extreme, no? If you feel sorry for your part in the argument (no idea what it is) and want to see if he's interested in giving this a second chance, reach out to him, but listen and if he doesn't seem like he's as into this as you are or if he says he doesn't want to try again, respect that, and move on. Don't play games with videos.
USCGAviator Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 A break up fight within a month?!! If I was the guy I'd just let you keep the movie.....the end.
Author nicolep1016 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 I agree that it sounds absolutely crazy to say that he is the love of my life after dating for a month but I have never connected with anyone the way that I have with him. There is something about him and I just have this feeling that I have never had before with anyone. I usually don't fall for people like this.
jobaba Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 So I was seeing this guy for about a month. Over the weekend, we got into a fight over something stupid and broke up. It was kind of a mutual thing. The problem is that I have not stop thinking about him and have come to the realization that I have fallen in love with him in a very short time. I know it might not seem possible, but it's true. I have been so depressed the last few days which is not normal for me because I get like this for NO ONE. I didn't even get upset when I got divorced. I don't know what to do because I don't want to look like a stalker and text him. I haven't heard from him at all in 2 days. I have a movie that he lent me and I was gonna text him and ask him if he wanted it back but that would probably sound lame and obvious, right? He would just text me if he wanted it back I guess. Any suggestions? Just text him. I really don't see what the big deal is if it was a mutual breakup and he didn't dump you. Maybe you'll be back together by the end of the week. Wrestling with your emotions is a weird thing. I was rejected a little while ago by a girl I got to know well. Since then, I'm kind of dating someone else, and I still can't get the first girl out of my mind. It drives me nuts. Just try and keep them in check.
Art_Critic Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 What was the fight over ? It has always been my experience that once a relationship starts down any breakup trail then it is over.. Even when I'd gotten back with girls that the breakup happened over something stupid then a new breakup was not far around the corner... You certainly can text him, don't use the movie as an excuse and if you are going to text him then just be honest and say what is on your mind and go from there..
Paroxysm Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I'm not gonna judge about the time-frame. My long-term relationship just ended and I'm just sad for anyone in the throes of the "end". The time-frame doesn't make the feelings any less real. Unlike you, I haven't been graceful or rather, worried about seeming graceful. I've seemed like a stalker Of course he's ignoring me. Don't text unless you can accept possibly being blown off. For me, well, I didn't have anything to lose anyway.
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