so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I knew this guy for a about a year. Partied together with our mutual friends a few times. Anyways we started texting and he asked me to hang out on saturday (which we did) andhe invited me out with his friends tonight. We hung out..then went and partied with our friends. It was super fun and we got along great. He seemed really into me. Anyways I made the mistake of hooking up with him. Haven't had sex in a long time and was dying to get laid. We start having sex for like a minute then I quickly go to the bathroom. I come back and he says the condom ripped so obviously we didn't continue. He didn't finish or anything. Then we went back to his house and cuddeld all night. Then in the morning he was super grumpy and I could tell he wanted me to leave. He didn't mention hanging out tonight which we were supposed to. Did I do something wrong? I remember he was talking about his ex who he just broke up with the night before but he seemed really into me I'm not really attached or anything but I liked him and am dissapointed :(ishould I just assume were not hanging out and just wait and see if he texts me? I have a feeling he won't.
rightfield Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 He JUST broke up with someone the night before? If so, he is still feeling the effects of that, and probably has a lot of confusing thoughts bouncing around in his head. Give him some time and see what he does.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Bestman-i was looking for advice..not to be insulted. My vagina is perfectly clean thank you very much. If you have nothing helpful to contribute then don't reply. This is supposed to be an advice forum. Seems you get off on hiding behind your computer to insult people you don't even know.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Go back and read your reply then hopefully it will be made clear to you that you say my vagina is dirty. Grow up. Can you read people's minds? That was the most immature response..you must be 12. I shower and wash it every day. And get regular check ups. I also don't sleep around. You must not get laid too often and need to take it out on me. Btw he texted me few minutes ago and were hanging out tonight.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 LOL your such a dumbass. Why would he want to hangout with me if I was so dirty? Eh eh? Were going to dinner then movie. No wonder why you can't get laid. Good luck with that.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Cause you make it obvious that your not getting laid. why your being so mean. Usually mean people have insecurities and can't get laid. That's all I'm saying.. I don't plan on having sex with him for a while..I was drunk and things were getting hot and heavy..what's wrong with that? If he wanted to be left alone then I would of never heard from him again. Can you leave me alone now? Please and thank you. Just get off my topic already if your so against what I'm doing. Go and move on to another topic with your obnoxious replies.
InJest Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Why did you get up and go to the bathroom during sex?
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Those mean people you gave examples of yes of course can get laid. But are you any of those? No. I was referring to the type of people who are only mean on the internet..just like you. Why on earth would any of the 'mean' people you just mentioned would waste their time on a forum being mean when they have such a bad ass life? Clearly you get off on being mean to people behind a computer so I can't really see you having lots of sex..no offense. But if you do then good job..your really cool.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 InJest- because I had to go pee really bad..couldn't hold it :/
InJest Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Why didn't you finish him off w/ a bj, once the condom broke?
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 I'm just joking around lol calm down. Don't get so mad. I just think its funny how mean your being on a forum. I never said its been years since I got laid. Its been a few months which just proves that I am not a desperate whore who will **** anyone. And I don't give bj's until I really know the guy. Its really personal to me and its a personal preference that is not your business.
InJest Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 He probably thinks you weren't into it. If that situation happened to me, and she wouldn't finish me off, I'd be done with her, at least from a dating perspective. I'd still give her a call if I was bored/lonely, but I wouldn't take her seriously. I can't stand girls that won't finish.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Oh your right. Maybe that's why he was grumpy the next morning. I just didn't think he was still into it either. And he didn't say anything or try to inniate fooling around again so I didn't do anything either..but he still cuddled me. I feel bad now :\
InJest Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Unless a guy directly says he doesn't want to have sex, assume he still wants to have sex. He probably just didn't want to pressure you. Not much you can do now other than wait, or maybe send a text asking if he wants to finish what you started the other night?
Author so_mo34 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Bestman- I am not selfish in bed. If anything I am way more concerned about the guys pleasure then mine. I never ask them to go down on me..they just do it. And I spend way more time giving them a bj. Only if I like and feel comfortable with the guy. Just because I did not finish this one guy off or give him head does not make me selfish and I fully intend to make it up to him if he is that upset about it.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 So apparently if a guy doesn't make a girl cum it's fine. but If a girl doesn't let a guy cum then she is selfish because the condom ripped? Ok that's not fair... Not all girls enjoy giving head just as not all guys like going down on a girl.
Author so_mo34 Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 What are you talking about? That did not make any sense what so ever. Funny how you go and delete all your previous posts as 'BestMan' in my topic. You make a new account and then agree with yourself in other people's posts. I feel a little sorry for you.
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