one goal Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 As in my previous post I posted about how I asked that girl at school Im friends with out, but she said she'd get back to me and would rather eat at school instead of going out. Anyways I was talking to one of her best friends on FB chat last night who I met a week ago. I told her I asked her friend out and we talked about how she kinda of has shyed away from me. She told me she's kinda seeing this guy from her church right now, but doesn't want everyone to know about him yet. So she said that's why she kind of blew me off. She said because she's a nice girl, and doesn't want to sound mean. Even though i'd rather her been honest and said NO because she's seeing someone. I believe her because I saw his pics on her facebook with her, and kinda of had a hunch. So is it okay I still talk to this girl a lot and ask her if she wants to meet up still soon and have dinner? I mean I still think she's hot and like her. Will that upset her if I keep persisting? I mean if they're not serious in their relationship yet. That also makes sense why she deleted my comment about how cute she looked in her photo, so he wouldn't see my comment.
Emilia Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 It's time to stop talking to her otherwise she will set her boyfriend on you and he will beat the c**p out of you
oaks Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Will that upset her if I keep persisting? Yes. Time to move on. It seemed like she wasn't really interested, and now that you've done some detective work you've found out why. That also makes sense why she deleted my comment about how cute she looked in her photo, so he wouldn't see my comment. Sometimes you're quite perceptive! What you can take away from this experience is that sometimes declining your offer of a date (ie, getting rejected) isn't all about you. This time it's about her, and her proto-relationship with some other guy. In the future, often you'll never know why you get rejected, but now you know that it isn't always about you so you shouldn't feel so bad about it happening again. Find someone else and ask her out.
stillafool Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 No don't ask her out. If she were interested she wouldn't have gotten involved with the other guy. She has chosen him for her bf. Move on to another girl. Good luck.
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 As in my previous post I posted about how I asked that girl at school Im friends with out, but she said she'd get back to me and would rather eat at school instead of going out. Anyways I was talking to one of her best friends on FB chat last night who I met a week ago. I told her I asked her friend out and we talked about how she kinda of has shyed away from me. She told me she's kinda seeing this guy from her church right now, but doesn't want everyone to know about him yet. So she said that's why she kind of blew me off. She said because she's a nice girl, and doesn't want to sound mean. Even though i'd rather her been honest and said NO because she's seeing someone. I believe her because I saw his pics on her facebook with her, and kinda of had a hunch. So is it okay I still talk to this girl a lot and ask her if she wants to meet up still soon and have dinner? I mean I still think she's hot and like her. Will that upset her if I keep persisting? I mean if they're not serious in their relationship yet. That also makes sense why she deleted my comment about how cute she looked in her photo, so he wouldn't see my comment. Are you dense? She's seeing someone else. If that isn't enough for you to move on, then I don't know what is. Maybe a restraining order would be more of a sign to move on. :rolleyes:She is NOT interested in YOU, she is with SOMEONE ELSE!!!!
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Why did you give up on the teacher? :lmao: He was after his teacher? Oh man this just keeps getting better and better:laugh:
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 At least he is trying....more what i can say about female population on these forums, who wait for Men to fall in to their laps. He tries, but WAY TOO HARD!! There's persistance and then there is stalking. One Goal is on the cusp or stalking if he isn't in full blow stalker mode. Have you followed his threads?
oaks Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 He was after his teacher? Oh man this just keeps getting better and better:laugh: About 6 months ago. How did you miss that?
eatNrM Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 He tries, but WAY TOO HARD!! There's persistance and then there is stalking. One Goal is on the cusp or stalking if he isn't in full blow stalker mode. Have you followed his threads? This is it. This guy has trouble moving on to someone else. Then again, he's called 'one goal' for a reason lol. /sigh
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 About 6 months ago. How did you miss that? Ugh because usually when I see his threads I skim the f*ck out of them because they are virtually all the same. No I didn't know he was hot for teacher. Did he persue her? Hahahahahahahahahahaha I'm cracking up, but it's really not funny:lmao::lmao:
oaks Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Ugh because usually when I see his threads I skim the f*ck out of them because they are virtually all the same. No I didn't know he was hot for teacher. Did he persue her? Hahahahahahahahahahaha I'm cracking up, but it's really not funny:lmao::lmao: Well, you see, she was hot and he really liked her and she couldn't date him and it upset him. As you can see, he's moved on.
Eclypse Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Yes he moved on....to his next victim I thoroughly reccomend you look at his threads on the teacher. I think one got to a few hundred replies. It's always funny seeing newcomers give proper advice to him in the beginning I can see this thread turning into a 20 pager.
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I thoroughly reccomend you look at his threads on the teacher. I think one got to a few hundred replies. It's always funny seeing newcomers give proper advice to him in the beginning I can see this thread turning into a 20 pager. It's a joke. This will turn into a 20 pager. You're right. And all his threads are the same, with the same advice. Advice that he doesn't take or advice that does no good because he's a creeper. Girls typically don't like creepers.
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 All I can hear in my head is Van Halen's "Hot For Teacher" Hahahahahahahahahaha :lmao:
eatNrM Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 This thread will not turn into a 20 pager. Because I said so.
Eclypse Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 (edited) All I can hear in my head is Van Halen's "Hot For Teacher" Hahahahahahahahahaha :lmao: I love the video to that song. Unfortunately though something tells me OG isn't exactly David Lee Roth. Seriously though One Goal, do you not follow a single piece of advice given to you in every single one of your threads? I don't know how many more ways it can be spelled out. NO MEANS NO. T Edited November 7, 2011 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Mrlonelyone Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Do you people just want to cyberbully one goal until he shoots himself or something. @OneGoal. Well what did you loose by trying once more? As I said in your last thread if she gives you a whisy washy reply then forget about her. Such an answer at that point is just a no. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3716961&postcount=2 It's time to stop talking to her otherwise she will set her boyfriend on you and he will beat the c**p out of you Interesting. Tell me Emillia how old are you? Adults don't do that sort of thing you know...they either cool off or use a weapon.
grkBoy Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I'd move on. Continuing this is only wasting your time.
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Do you people just want to cyberbully one goal until he shoots himself or something. @OneGoal. Well what did you loose by trying once more? As I said in your last thread if she gives you a whisy washy reply then forget about her. Such an answer at that point is just a no. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3716961&postcount=2 Interesting. Tell me Emillia how old are you? Adults don't do that sort of thing you know...they either cool off or use a weapon. I doubt OG thinks he's being bullied. If he did, why would he continue to post here? Asking the same sh*t over and over?? Unless of course he's a glutton for punishment which could very well be the case.
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I love the video to that song. Unfortunately though something tells me OG isn't exactly David Lee Roth. Seriously though One Goal, do you not follow a single piece of advice given to you in every single one of your threads? I don't know how many more ways it can be spelled out. NO MEANS NO. That is precisely the reason you are single now and posting dumb threads like these... David Lee Roth in tight spandex he is NOT:love:
Lucky_One Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 OG, don't ask her out again, and don't text her anymore. She is interested in someone else, and you will get on her nerves. She will not go out with you at all, even for just dinner at school. This one is over. Time to move on.
Author one goal Posted November 8, 2011 Author Posted November 8, 2011 I texted with her some again today. I asked her how she was doing on those two big papers she has for history. Shes working on them right now. I did also tell her why I seem shy in person when we are doing stuff and it's because I like her I told her. She said she was cool with that and that we are friends. have I been loud and clear with her lol. I told her I know she's younger than me, she knows I'm 9 years older and said it's okay to be friends. Btw she did mention again she wants to meet up for lunch with me still next week at school. At least she isn't repulsed by me. When I see her the next time shoudl I hit on her and stuff. Oh and she's going to the Blues Blackhawks game tommorow night cause she likes the hawks and is going with some friends. I told her earlier this year I'd take her to one and she sounded interested. So if I see her what happens if her guy friend is around? Should I not be as flirty then?
Mrlonelyone Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 You should leave her alone. She's just not mature enough to be both direct and polite in saying she does not want anything to do with you. You see we as a society have decieded that women don't ever have to be direct. They get to hint in ways that are ambigious and non-committal. At this point unless that woman throws herself at you, calls you and text you and ask you to go to a game with her leave her alone. (You are a big time hockey guy so you would probably be a good person to go to a hockey game with.) However if you do hang out with her and her friends try to hit on one of her friends right in front of her. If she gets all well then that's the breaks for her. Your just friends afterall. I texted with her some again today. I asked her how she was doing on those two big papers she has for history. Shes working on them right now. I did also tell her why I seem shy in person when we are doing stuff and it's because I like her I told her. She said she was cool with that and that we are friends. have I been loud and clear with her lol. I told her I know she's younger than me, she knows I'm 9 years older and said it's okay to be friends. Btw she did mention again she wants to meet up for lunch with me still next week at school. At least she isn't repulsed by me. When I see her the next time shoudl I hit on her and stuff. Oh and she's going to the Blues Blackhawks game tommorow night cause she likes the hawks and is going with some friends. I told her earlier this year I'd take her to one and she sounded interested. So if I see her what happens if her guy friend is around? Should I not be as flirty then?
dispatch3d Posted November 8, 2011 Posted November 8, 2011 Humm I wonder if girls occasionally think I'm intentionally hitting on them when they just start dating a guy, get worried the guy will leave, and then make a big scene. That makes sense. Obviously don't pursue her. She isn't going to break things off with a new guy, you aren't going to get laid, all that will happen is you will piss off a girl. For the love of god don't piss off a girl.
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