DEABQ Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 My GF and I split after a year. I moved on. I was dating. I was happy. She begged me to give it one more shot, so I did. We started back very slow but soon I fell back in love with her, hard. As soon as I told her so, she pulled back. I know another guy had asked her out about a month ago but she was open and honest with me and said she had told him we were back together (yes, I am sure this plays into the whole thing). I am 99% sure she has had no contact with him since. This past weekend I took care of her child so my GF could spend time with a visiting former college roommate. I took the kid to her activities, cleaned up the house (we used to live together, but not now), basically did everything without asking for a thing in return. This morning my GF told me she appreciated everything I have done for her but she needs more space due to stress from her job that has become way more stressful and her house being torn apart during a major renovation. WTF? this woman BEGGED me to get back together. Sent me cards and books, long heartfelt emails, everything. Now after getting everything she asked for she says this? Do I back off? Do I call or text at all? She wii ask me to come over this week for sure, Do I go? Do I treat this as her way of breaking up without saying it? HELP!
ffw Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 My GF and I split after a year. I moved on. I was dating. I was happy. She begged me to give it one more shot, so I did. We started back very slow but soon I fell back in love with her, hard. As soon as I told her so, she pulled back. I know another guy had asked her out about a month ago but she was open and honest with me and said she had told him we were back together (yes, I am sure this plays into the whole thing). I am 99% sure she has had no contact with him since. This past weekend I took care of her child so my GF could spend time with a visiting former college roommate. I took the kid to her activities, cleaned up the house (we used to live together, but not now), basically did everything without asking for a thing in return. This morning my GF told me she appreciated everything I have done for her but she needs more space due to stress from her job that has become way more stressful and her house being torn apart during a major renovation. WTF? this woman BEGGED me to get back together. Sent me cards and books, long heartfelt emails, everything. Now after getting everything she asked for she says this? Do I back off? Do I call or text at all? She wii ask me to come over this week for sure, Do I go? Do I treat this as her way of breaking up without saying it? HELP! This is a typical case of player got played. She got what she wanted & is not interested anymore. She needs space, sounds fishy. Back off & become the player again. GL.
Author DEABQ Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 We split up probably because I was not truly in love with her the first time. I hate to admit this, but this is almost the same situation in reverse, except we are not living together this time.
Emilia Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Maybe she wanted to feel you loved her and didn't realise she herself had moved on in the meantime. It happens.
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