Lonely Ronin Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Like the title says, when do you consider it rude, to not officially end a "relationship" with a conversation/explination? backstory: I've been seeing this girl for the last 4 weeks, she is the first girl I've been interested in since my ex fiance and i split up over a year ago. We hit it off really well the first 2 to 3 weeks lots of long conversations, talking or texting every day, she spent the night at my place several times etc etc. The last time we where out, she got really wasted and went home with her friend. Right before they left her friend said "she is embarrassed and doesn't want you to see her get sick". That was two night ago, and i haven't heard a peep from her since, despite a voice mail and two text messages on my part. At this point, I thinking it's over as far as she's concerned. It seems totally out of character though, because she was really sweet and nice. so what do people think, at what point does it become rude to not say something?
dasein Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Three dates in my book, less if there was lots of buildup before the first face to face. Whatever the line is, sounds like she is well past it. Don't give up though, it's only been two days. I'd leave one more VM early next week and then let it go. Good luck.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 That's the plan, I'm going to try and call her one more time, on Tuesday or Wednesday. if she answers she will need to have a good explanation, if not I'm going to leave a very open ended vm. Three dates in my book, less if there was lots of buildup before the first face to face. Whatever the line is, sounds like she is well past it. Don't give up though, it's only been two days. I'd leave one more VM early next week and then let it go. Good luck.
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