tlamb93 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 My girlfriend broke up with me on Friday because she said she needed time to get over her ex boyfriend. They dated for almost a year and she said she wasn't ready to commit to another relationship. About an hour after she broke up with me, I asked her if she'd be willing to be Friends with Benefits. She said she'd love to do that. She already invited me to hang out 3 times this week, so I'm pretty confident that she didn't just say yes to being friends with benefits just to get me off her back. However, we never text anymore and her attraction towards me just doesn't seem to be there...She says she still likes me, but she just can't commit...What should I do?
Author tlamb93 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 run. fwb never works That's what I've heard....We didn't date that long, and we never had sex. Do you think sex could revamp any feelings? I still haven't touched her down there yet either, and I plan on doing both the next time we hang out.
M2155 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 run. fwb never works What she said. Nothing good comes from FWB. Your girl said that so she has the company of you when she gets lonely but of course the feelings are no longer mutual. FWB is not the same as a relationship and agreeing to that lowers your value (you're not BF/GF material now). Just ignore it. Forget you ever said anything.
Author tlamb93 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 What she said. Nothing good comes from FWB. Your girl said that so she has the company of you when she gets lonely but of course the feelings are no longer mutual. FWB is not the same as a relationship and agreeing to that lowers your value (you're not BF/GF material now). Just ignore it. Forget you ever said anything. I see where you're coming from. I'm a senior in High School, and I just want that girl to spend time with and have fun with, with no serious commitment. I'm hoping it could be this girl.
eleanorhurting Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I realize I was a late bloomer but I never would have dreamt of getting into a fwb situation when I was in high school after I broke up with a boyfriend.I really dont see anything good coming from it. I am sure there are other people you can meet and have fun with.
ChelseaLS Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I realize I was a late bloomer but I never would have dreamt of getting into a fwb situation when I was in high school after I broke up with a boyfriend.I really dont see anything good coming from it. I am sure there are other people you can meet and have fun with. FWB doesn't work. Someone always has some feelings attached and someone always gets hurt. Like eleanorhurting said, there are lots of other poeple out there to have fun with.
rubberball Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Don't do it. FWB always ends like a train wreck.
joseph17 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I think it's messed sa for her to say yes to be FWB when you haven't even done anything yet. Usually for me that meant you already had been sleeping together. And if you are trying to change your status with her through sex I can assure you you will be the one hurt. If you just want a FB then your going to have to be open to her seeing other guys and possibly sleeping with them too. Can you handle that? Your in high school keep dating as many girls as you can and get experience. See what's out there and have fun. I personally would leave this one alone
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