norajane Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I hate to say it because I know it is hurtful to you, but chatting is often an ego-boost for the guy. He gets to feel like he is still hot stuff because you are into him. It makes him feel good. That isn't the same as wanting to truly work things out. I'm not saying that's what is happening here for sure, but when a guy wants a second chance, he acts like it. Meaning, he doesn't leave you wondering - his actions show you that he wants to do the hard work of rebuilding.
confused kitty Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Maybe your right! Im goin back to NC and when he texts next time it would want to be a good excuse- and even at that hel be waiting afew days before he gets a reply from me - Im turning the tables now, Ive had enough!
Author snowloverbaby Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Confused what happened. Did yall meet?
Author snowloverbaby Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Girl yesterday Jason sent me a good morning text and then he ignored me all day long after texted him. Last night I asked if he could talk and we texted for about 45 minutes. We are still on for Sunday afternoon as of today cause i just asked him a little bit ago and he said yes he will meet me at our location. Im supposing you didnt meet your man? I dont understand why men do that crap. They like the attention but then ignore and stuff. I bet they do pull back when they feel like they are getting too close again. I am going to tell Jason on Sunday that if he is talking to any other women and i find out he better nix it now or come clean because if i find out im gone for good.
confused kitty Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Thinkin of you Snowlover, hope you guys have a fab time when you meet up today - let all us hopeful fools (perhaps its just me!) know how it goes for you... All the best! Kitty
Author snowloverbaby Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Kitty what has happened with your situation? Yeah mine confirmed were on today at 3. Im nervous and hope it goes well. Hes kinda hot then cold at times and since our time was always limited together im just gonna enjoy it no matter what happens.
confused kitty Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Hey Snowlover, no change - 4daysNC and still havnt heard from him I just dont know whats goin on in his head anymore! Oh lucky you, yes enjoy every minute and let us know how it goes
confused kitty Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Snowlover, how did Sunday go...????? Dying to know how you got on! Ive spoke to my guy, we're on again for friday, meeting just as "friends"!!
nu464 Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 There are many ways on how to become successful, and different people have different perceptions about success. I believe I am successful because I am happy with where I am right now: I have a good job, a good family and trusted friends. If you want to become successful, you should start by knowing your true passion. In your case I know you what it is, with that you'll have to gain motivation. What is it that motivates you? Your family? friends? money? Focus on it, and see yourself years from now with it/them.
Author snowloverbaby Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 (edited) Okay.....update....He and i got back together November 13th the day we met. It went great. He even told me he still loved me again. It was fine and then the last week started acting flaky again. He topped texting when he said he would or calling me back when he promised. These actions caused us to argue again and the excuses got old. I know hes busy but he was being so great about things the first week and then the last week he stopped. I dont know how someone can be hot then cold. It really took me all the way back thru this again and how the break up felt in October. Finally on Monday he told me he couldnt give me the time anymore and being an hour away is hard. He really hurt me again so here I am during the holidays suffering again. He wants to stay friends but i dont know if i can do that. It was going fine. Part of me felt like he met someone else but he swears its not that because if he didnt have time for me then how did he have time for someone else. Its been horrible the last several days. Then we were gonna meet Tuesday and he canceled on me because he was sick so now the plan is to meet Sunday evening to give back some jewelry and things and talk. Im sad. Kitty we should exchange number to talk privately. Edited December 1, 2011 by snowloverbaby
confused kitty Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Snowlover Im so sorry to hear that, I havent been on here in a while (i actually felt i needid to go it alone) Ive just read your last update, hunny i fully understand how your feeling, [email protected] is my email if youd like to chat privately sometime, stay strong sweetie
confused kitty Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Il probably get in trouble for giving that out but id like to chat too!
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