Kev1337 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 So I liked a certain girl at my High School for over a year now. We used to have a class together but we rarely talked at all. I had a crush on her last year but were too shy to speak with her. I think about her all the time. She had a bad experience in the past with a former boy friend who lied and betrayed her. Ever since then, she doesn't trust any boys. She's very open and sarcastic with me just like everyone else, shows no sign of interest of me. I openly admitted my crush to her on Facebook and she wanted us to just be friends. We don't have a class together but I'm trying to get her to notice me. I try to talk with her more often on messenger and in school. She rarely messages me unless I start up the convo. I'm so in love with her, I literally wait for her to log on messenger. I think about her everywhere I go. This is also my first time falling in love. Sometimes I get depressed when she doesn't message me. Edit: I left a bad impression on her long ago as well Please help me
OneFootOut Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 We used to have a class together but we rarely talked at all Ever since then, she doesn't trust any boys. She's very open and sarcastic with me just like everyone else, shows no sign of interest of me. I openly admitted my crush to her on Facebook and she wanted us to just be friends. She rarely messages me unless I start up the convo. Did you read what you posted?? You said you are so in love with a girl you rarely ever talked to, shows no interest in you, told you just friends, and she never initiates conversation. How are you in love then? What time have you spent with her to know anything about who she really is? You are in love with a fantasy in your mind that she will love you back. She's not interested in you, it can't be any more clear. What to do? Move on.
Pierre Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 So I liked a certain girl at my High School for over a year now. We used to have a class together but we rarely talked at all. I had a crush on her last year but were too shy to speak with her. I think about her all the time. She had a bad experience in the past with a former boy friend who lied and betrayed her. Ever since then, she doesn't trust any boys. She's very open and sarcastic with me just like everyone else, shows no sign of interest of me. I openly admitted my crush to her on Facebook and she wanted us to just be friends. We don't have a class together but I'm trying to get her to notice me. I try to talk with her more often on messenger and in school. She rarely messages me unless I start up the convo. I'm so in love with her, I literally wait for her to log on messenger. I think about her everywhere I go. This is also my first time falling in love. Sometimes I get depressed when she doesn't message me. Edit: I left a bad impression on her long ago as well Please help me There is no point in falling in love or chasing a woman that is NOT INTERESTED. I suggest you pay attention to women that show interest in you. From your description she is not into you. You are in the FZ's bottom. DO not waste your energy in a futile activity. If you are still interested put her on the back burner and see what happens. But do not lose sleep over her.
Pierre Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 We used to have a class together but we rarely talked at all Ever since then, she doesn't trust any boys. She's very open and sarcastic with me just like everyone else, shows no sign of interest of me. I openly admitted my crush to her on Facebook and she wanted us to just be friends. She rarely messages me unless I start up the convo. Did you read what you posted?? You said you are so in love with a girl you rarely ever talked to, shows no interest in you, told you just friends, and she never initiates conversation. How are you in love then? What time have you spent with her to know anything about who she really is? You are in love with a fantasy in your mind that she will love you back. She's not interested in you, it can't be any more clear. What to do? Move on. He is a very young man and innocence is beautiful. I know how he feels since I did that in the 6th grade. However, some folks feel that way in HS, no big deal. Innocence is a beautiful thing.
carhill Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Two things: high school. her loins could lean a completely different way next week. You're *infatuated*. Love is down the road a ways. Enjoy
dasein Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Oh man we've all been there and know how it feels. Try not to spend idle time hanging around waiting for this girl to turn up. Do you have some active hobbies? If so maybe pour yourself into those, and if not get some. Try to stay away from places that trigger the crushing feelings. Good luck.
ChessPieceFace Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 She is never going to like you. I've been where you are man, "falling in love" over someone I knew I shouldn't. Stop this now in whatever way you can, move on as soon as you can. Don't let it get worse and worse and start obsessing over a girl who doesn't like you. It's NEVER going to happen. And more to the point, if it ever WOULD conceivably happen, you obsessing over her will ruin it. Focus on other girls. Maybe she'll realize what she missed -- not likely, but possible, and either way you won't be a miserable wreck.
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