Bustabrit Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I've been dating a Libra for five monthes and we bond so amazingly. He just moved to another town so I rarely see him, but hear from him often. Should i base his zodiac sign on how "loyal" he is? Because I'm big into astrology.
OnyxSnowfall Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I don't think it's sound to base someone's probable/potential loyalty on their astrological sun sign / chart, or really ANYTHING about them based on such, personally..........
Author Bustabrit Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Yea, that is kinda what I'm thinking. I've just seen quite a few libras being unfaithful and read stupid things on the internet. But then again I've seen many other signs be very unfaithful also. I hope I'm just overthinking
Cracker Jack Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I'm a Libra myself. And yes, I think you're overthinking here.
Author Bustabrit Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 HAHAHA I dont know much about Justin Bieber but my boyfriend isnt a doosher hahaha. And have you always been faithful Cracker?
Cracker Jack Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Well, I've only ever been in one situation that could be looked at as a "relationship", but I only had eyes for her and no other woman--even if they were much more attractive than her. I just think this is something you have to look at from an individual by individual basis.
Author Bustabrit Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 aww thats so sweet :] I posted another forum about my actual problem and noone replied LOL. I just joined this today to seek and unbiased insight from someone.
D-Lish Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I'm a Libra, and I've always been faithful and loyal. There are a lot of other traits I am supposed to portray as a Libra, and I don't... I don't believe in Astrology.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 My father is a Libra and cheated on my mother after 36 years together. I am a Gemini with a Pisces Moon Sign and therefore should be quite promiscuous in theory. However, my Venus sign is in Taurus, I have a very strong anti-infidelity stance. My husband, an Aries, has definite fidelity issues. One's Sun Sign does not decide one's whole life choices, just approximately how 7 out of 10 (rough percentages) of their personality traits will be influenced. For the record, I was working towards becoming a professional astrologer and then went through a religious conversion.
snug.bunny Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 My father is a Libra and cheated on my mother after 36 years together. I am a Gemini with a Pisces Moon Sign and therefore should be quite promiscuous in theory. However, my Venus sign is in Taurus, I have a very strong anti-infidelity stance. My husband, an Aries, has definite fidelity issues. One's Sun Sign does not decide one's whole life choices, just approximately how 7 out of 10 (rough percentages) of their personality traits will be influenced. For the record, I was working towards becoming a professional astrologer and then went through a religious conversion. The ex was a Taurus, he did NOT have a very strong anti-infidelity stance. But I will say, that he was very strong willed and determined, very reliable otherwise.
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Justin Beiber is a Libyra.......what does that tell ya. I think your obsession with Justin Beiber is unhealthy. There is a lot of fun astrology stuff on the Internet, if you want to fool around with it. I do hope you won't make decisions or judgements based upon any of it. My husband is a Libra. He can be a very indecisive fellow! And he loves to be part of a couple. But, he could have the tendency to run VERY hot and cold, with the emphasis on the cold. He is romantic and idealistic. He is very attractive to women and he knows how to turn on the charm on purpose. I think those are traits that Libras are supposed to have.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 The ex was a Taurus, he did NOT have a very strong anti-infidelity stance. But I will say, that he was very strong willed and determined, very reliable otherwise. That Venus sign may actually explain part of my determination in relationships, including this elementally screwed marriage. Hmm.....
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Whew, OP. I just read your other thread. You don't need to be concerned about your boyfriend's sun sign. You have real life signs to read. You know who / how he is by the way he actually behaves … which has not been very good, so far. From that post, I get that you both probably have many things to work on individually before you will be ready to be in a serious relationship. How is he dealing with the responsibilities of being a father to his child?
Citizen Erased Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 I'm a Libra and I haven't slept around and my husband was the third person I had a relationship with. Make of that what you will.
Author Bustabrit Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 He loves his daughter so much. And i also love her to. She's an amazing little girl. Well I thought I had myself figured out before we started dating but now I just dont know what is going on, or if hes lying about how badly he wants me in his life. I just dont want another woman on the side, I couldnt handle it, and theres no way of me knowing. Part of me feels bad for not trusting him because hes so sweet to me and wants to be with him so bad, and the other is scared of getting hurt if I start to trust him.
Author Bustabrit Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Citizen erased, if thats you and ur husband, YOU GUYS ARE SOO CUTE :] and that changes my perspective a little
snug.bunny Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 That Venus sign may actually explain part of my determination in relationships, including this elementally screwed marriage. Hmm..... Possibly. But you can apply the same logic within similar scenarios where the two are different "zodiac" signs (say a Libra and a Taurus) and have similar or non-similar results. A woman I used to work with, she is a Libra, and she had an affair outside of her marriage. I will say though, that as far as longevity, my sign in conjunction with his made the most sense. My sign with signs that are not compatible have always fizzled very quickly. Except for an Aquarius I was with for several years, a sign that is not supposed to be compatible with my own, and he did not cheat. Fun topic!
FitChick Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Get a compatibility chart between the two of you done. There are lots of free and cheap websites. It's about much more than sun signs. A good psychic can tell you if he's cheating. Don't go to a storefront psychic, though. They are usually gypsies. Try to get a referral.
Pyro Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Citizen erased, if thats you and ur husband, YOU GUYS ARE SOO CUTE :] and that changes my perspective a little yes that is us Zodiac signs don't determine how a person is......IMO
dreamingoftigers Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Possibly. But you can apply the same logic within similar scenarios where the two are different "zodiac" signs (say a Libra and a Taurus) and have similar or non-similar results. A woman I used to work with, she is a Libra, and she had an affair outside of her marriage. Interesting that you chose the two signs ruled by Venus. What I mentioned before in the influence of different signs on different aspects of personality. So in the case of the crazy determination etc. within relationships, the Venus in Taurus fits. I will say though, that as far as longevity, my sign in conjunction with his made the most sense. My sign with signs that are not compatible have always fizzled very quickly. Except for an Aquarius I was with for several years, a sign that is not supposed to be compatible with my own, and he did not cheat. Fun topic! I dated two Aries and they had the longest relationships with me. I also dated the worst astrological match for myself out of 144 different possibilities and that lasted 1.5 years. Ugh. He was awful.
snug.bunny Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Interesting that you chose the two signs ruled by Venus. What I mentioned before in the influence of different signs on different aspects of personality. So in the case of the crazy determination etc. within relationships, the Venus in Taurus fits. I picked the two signs out of thin air, I had no idea they were both Venus signs. But yes, what you said makes sense. I dated two Aries and they had the longest relationships with me. I also dated the worst astrological match for myself out of 144 different possibilities and that lasted 1.5 years. Ugh. He was awful. Yes, those are the specific traits that I have noticed in the "Taurus Personality", those being "persistence" and "determination", also reliable and providing a great sense of security.
insertnamehere Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Today's deep thought: Astrology doesn't even agree with itself. If astrology were a real thing (and it's not), you would have to move everyone's sign back a full month. So, presuming you believe the stars and the planets influences peoples lives (they don't), then every "Aries" you've met in your life should be judged as a Pisces. Why? Because the stars have moved enough over the years that the sun now passes through those constellations at an earlier time of the year. In conclusion, belief in astrology is not only proof that you're a retard, it's also proof that you're retard who doesn't even demand that your system of belief be internally consistent. Bonus points awarded for all the Christians who might want to take a second to consider that belief in divination is also witchcraft.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 It's a bit of fun and a casual thing to discuss. Welcome to the internet.
Wolf18 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 2 sexual interactions I've had with women in relationshps, and both were Libras. However there are many different elements in astrology that can predict tendencies outside of birthday. Even the time and place in which you were born matter.
ScienceGal Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Astrology should be used for entertainment purposes only. I can't tell you how many times my horoscope has told me that "love is in the stars". Really? I guess that could be right, if it's in the stars that explains why it's not down here! I'm a Libra. I've always been loyal and faithful. When I love I give everything I've got. I respect relationships and the emotions/intimacy shared. Also, I've dated 3 Aries and they are all so incredibly different. One was shy and kind, the other was a crazy alcoholic who was mean at times, and the current guy I'm seeing is kind, responsible and outgoing. And the first two have bdays one day after the other. Don't put too much stock in the Zodiac. Use the actual information that you have to make the best possible choice for you.
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