riggs Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Met a girl in a bar last night and got her number. She replied to a few texts late last night, but hasn't replied on a couple I sent this afternoon. What gives? Did she change her mind? She has an iphone which I would imagine is always handy and she didn't hesitate to give me her number.
Jono85 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 why did u send a couple without any responses. u've already shown ur desperate and low value. don't double text girls who u haven't been seeing for a while, esp a girl u JUST got a number of. chill. at least pretend u have many options.
Fondue Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Could be one of three things: 1) She genuinely doesn't check her phone often, is busy, or anything else related to not seeing your messages or no time to reply. 2) She no longer considers you a prospect of any kind. Girl/boy goes out, has a few drinks, gets friendly, meets new people. They wake up the next morning and think, "nah, that guy/girl isn't anything to me," and drop you like that. It's common. 3) She gave you her number and already planned on dropping you. It was easier to just give you her contact instead of saying, "no thanks." This I find weird. I dunno why anyone just can't be honest, but whatever. This is the exact reason why I stopped taking people's numbers. Man or woman. I just wait till they ask for mine. This is for anything, really. Even people I meet at work. If someone wants to get in contact with you, they will ask for your contact info, that's the way I see it. You'd be surprised how many woman go out of their way to ask for YOUR number once they see you're not interested in asking for theirs.
dispatch3d Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 call her and ask for a date on wednesday. Stop farting around.
Author riggs Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Drives me nuts because i asked her and she ended up putting my number in her phone, then calling me in the bar so her number would then be on my phone. Screw this texting, I'm gonna wait a few days then call her.
dispatch3d Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Screw waiting 3 days. Call her now and get a date. If it doesn't happen, use the next 3 days to get a new number.
D-Lish Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 If someone isn't returning 2 texts in a row, don't get on the phone and call. from a woman's perspective I'd be turned off.... It would come across as a little too much since you just met last night. Wait and see if you hear back, if you don't, you have your answer regarding how serious she is about getting to know you.
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