sphynx Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 So I dated a guy for a month, it got serious fast (he was very pushy). For the first 2 weeks he was close to perfect, he even introduced me to his family, he kept in touch all the time... Then he did an 180 and became a different person, started yelling at me, getting drunk, and being extremely posessive and jealous. Everything I said was a problem for him...So after 2 more weeks I decided I couldn't live like that and ended it. He absolutely hated me for it, sent me nasty texts, and promised to piss me off "so I knew how he felt ". We have to see each other every weekend (we have the same social circle), and every time he saw me, he tried to make me jealous by picking up different women. I didn't react because it really didn't bother me. But last night he started flirting heavily and exchanged phone numbers with a woman I used to be best friends with, but had a falling out a few months ago and stopped talking to her. He knew about it, but she never knew I dated this guy. This time, it really got to me. To the point where I went up to her and told her that the guy was my ex of a month, and that he was just using her to get back at me for having dumped him. I thought she should know (she wants to be friends with me again). I feel like this is a very low blow on his part, I know he wants revenge, but still, I think he went too far. He never even liked this friend of mine. And I feel that even though we didn't talk for a long time, she should still respect me enough not to date my ex. I feel betrayed and I don't know how to shake this feeling off. After all, it's only been a month since the breakup and now I feel like I can't even cherish the few nice memories I had left out of this short lived relationship.
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