k100danny Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Basically weve been broken up around 3 months now, it wasnt working although we both cared for each other so much and still had feelings i think we both knew that a future wouldnt work. I tried to be friends straight after break up but still had feelings, we have met up a couple of times since and if im honest i was pining for the person i fell in love with and i know we cant be those people again and so i have to move on and forget. We were close before we got together and promised we would remain friends even if it took a long time to get over we would be in touch in the future. anyway after months of me feeling like crap and being very sad, seeking therapy to deal with some issues i have i think i have finally started to truly move on. I recently went on a couple of dates and although i dont think either were right for me it made me see that other people will find me attractive and ive stopped thinking of her as much. I was out having a few drinks with friends on friday and i got a text message from her, she hasnt really been contacting me since we split maybe one other time so this came as a shock. feeling i was moving on i decided to delete the message without looking at it. Im not sure what she could have wanted maybe it was just a hi how are you doing ect. I feel a bit bad for ignoring her but i just didnt want to take a step backward now. I do feel that i would like to be her friend in the future if i truly could but im not sure im ready for that, it may have been childish but i think deleting it was in my best interest at the minute.
solobeary Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 That's very mature of you to delete the message to save yourself from regressing back into breakup pain. Good work!
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