Bobby289 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 So I have quite a bit of videos and pictures of my ex on my computer and I know she wants them since its from trips and everything but I want to clean out everything. I don't want to break NC but I feel like just sending them would. What to do? I thought about just giving them to a friend on a cd to give to her?
Marianis Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 i didnt have the heart to delete the pics and videos of my ex and me... but i didnt want to see them in my computer so i just put them on a USB and put it with all the things that reminded me of him ... i also thought that maybe i could sent him the last pics we took together.. but.. you know what! .. he never asked for them.. so i assume he didnt care.. if she wants them .. then she will ask for them!! ... maybe you can put them in a CD just in case she ask wants them.. if she doesnt tell you anything .. then why should you bother?!
M2155 Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 Put them on a USB flash drive or something and put it away. If your ex really wants them she will ask. Promise!
Spriggins Posted November 7, 2011 Posted November 7, 2011 If you still care about the ex and aim for a reconcilation, my suggestion would also be to put them on a flash drive and place it far away so you don't get the temptation to view it, then delete the files from your computer. And make sure you cover everything. During a past mistake, I thought I had cleaned up my computer only for my lady-at-the-time to surf through some of my Word documents and find a letter that I had created for my previous ex. Took some explaining to do...
Author Bobby289 Posted November 7, 2011 Author Posted November 7, 2011 Thanks everyone, I'll just put it all on a disk and hide it somewhere just incase. You're right is she really wants them she will ask.
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