Bobby289 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Just an update of how things are going. So far NC has done more in this week and a half than the month I had in contact post BU. I no longer worry about what she is doing or where she is which is a nice change from worrying every night and driving myself crazy. I've learned that if I just trust the person she is there is nothing I have to worry about and If I am wrong I am strong enough now to not want that person if she comes back. Some days of course I think the worst, miss her terribly, and just want to contact her. Then I remember it will only set me back, and the next day I feel stronger not breaking down and contacting her. I have had thoughts of other people but I know that is just me trying to attach to anyone, rebounds are pathetic and I know that. I will just do this the right way and keep working on myself, as much as I still love and miss my ex I think she made the right choice as I would have never wanted to overcome my demons without the BU... I don't know if she has rebounded or is overcoming her own demons but I like to think the best and hope she doing the right thing. Bottom line NC has helped me, although it is one of the hardest things to do it is also the best.
skyle Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I know how you're feeling. Yesterday I had a nightmare day with NC, I'm only on day three. But I was having trouble sticking to it yesterday but I did! And today has been much easier and I feel I am getting stronger each day which is really good!
HappyFlower Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I know how you're feeling. Yesterday I had a nightmare day with NC, I'm only on day three. But I was having trouble sticking to it yesterday but I did! And today has been much easier and I feel I am getting stronger each day which is really good! This is my second attempt at NC after my ex broke up with me 2 months ago - I'm on 12 days now, having only made it to 6 last time I tried (Yay, double! lol). Weirdly both times, day 3 I found more difficult than any other Glad you guys are doing well I can honestly say, during the 6 weeks after the breakup I was a mess, missed him, wanted him back, text him all the time etc, now I do still think of him, but I don't miss him like I used to. Its a good feeling And I don't know what my ex is up to, relationship wise or in any other way. And I like it like that! Everyone said it'd get easier, and I thought no way! I'm glad they were right! x
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