Should I wait a few days to see if she calls, try calling her or just move on?

[DAIN_BRAMAGED]

Long story short. Went out with a friend 3 weeks ago and had fun. We hugged a few times later that night and she called the next day to say she had a great time. We had plans to go out this past Saturday but she called me up on Wednesday to ask if we could change plans and take her best girlfriend out instead because her boyfriend just broke up with her. I really didn't want to hang with her and a girlfriend so I told her I'd call her on Friday.

 

I tried calling her Friday and she didn't answer. I called her again Saturday afternoon and she didn't answer. Now I'm wondering if the date switch was a way for her to let me know she has no interest in me and I'm a bit pissed that she didn't even have the courtesy to return my call on Saturday regardless if I was going or not. Should I wait to see if she calls? Call her back in a few days or just move on? This sux because we seemed to enjoy each others company the last time we went out.

[Kaplan]

In these situations, you just have to forget about it. Delete her number after a few days. If she calls you back in the meantime then it'll be a pleasant surprise.

 

Most of the time people act this way when they don't want to talk to you. Every now and then there's some other reason for it.

[DAIN_BRAMAGED]

Thanks Kaplan, I'm not sure what to think. It's just weird. We are just friends but when we went out the last time, our first date, it just seemed right, we felt so close, I wasn't expecting that as a friend. We held hands, hugged, she had me give her a neck massage and it could of possibly went further but she was sick (and still went out).

 

She joked about us being married the next morning, I guess I'm also wondering if I missed some verbal signs from her and now she might possibly think I don't find her attractive or am interested??? I just want to find out one way or the other if there is anything starting to grow between us as friends or if she feels awkward about that night, she said she had fun. Part of me says she has some interest and another, bigger part of me says she is pushing me away.

 

One last thing...she was really trying to convince me to go out with her and her friend, saying how fun it would be and she quietly and out of nowhere said "Its okay if you find someone"....meaning if we went out that night and I found another woman. The thing is when she said that, she didn't sound very convincing to me that she really meant it. I didn't even respond...

Edited November 7, 2011 by DAIN_BRAMAGED