Sweet_T Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 As I sit here at work on the verge of tears, I am reaching out with the last little bit I have left. It's been 8 months since my ex left and I am still hung up on the entire break up. Im sure it doesnt help that I've continued to see him and talk to him on a regular basis, but I can't help the fact that I still love him, even though I know he doesnt deserve it. Up until this morning, Ive wanted to know what the problem is, and why he won't try. But so much has happened this time around. So many secrets were exposed and the trust isnt there. Even though things he found out about me were before me and him, he feels like all of that is an exuse for him. My heart just cant take anymore. And I've tried the no contact thing and then a couple of days go by then he calls. I dont know what to do!!!!!! I feel like Im legit loosing my mind. My head and my heart feel like they want to explode. Someone please help me...
Mcnulty Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 You're not losing your mind. You say things came out about your past? I'm unclear...did you lie to him? You have to look after YOU...we're never more than number 2 in another person's eyes...this saying is true...what I'm gettiong at is, only you can achieve any peace and it seems if he won't try again and doesn't trust you, then it's time for you to make a decision....no contact. If you say he rings you after a couple of days of NC, the solution is to block/bar his number, so he can't get to you. If you stay in contact with him it will only diminish you even more, you must know that. Also of you go silent on him it will give him some time and space to decide what he really wants..the single life or maybe you, but if you stay in contact, this will not happen and the whole hurt and drama will be a prolonged wound for you. Sending you positive thoughts.
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