Dealbreaker Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 The following is a cross-post from another discussion on this forum that hasn't received any responses: To state my problem briefly: it would be inaccurate to say I haven't had any success with women, but I almost never attract the girls I'm attracted to. I typically wait for my relationships to fall into place; I've rarely put myself out on the line and tried to establish a relationship with someone whom I'm attracted to. A lot of my problem probably stems from lack of confidence in my own personality. I'm good at having intellectual conversations with people I know, but I'm not very good at entertaining people I don't know. I have a good number of close friends that I trust, but I'm not very good at meeting new people. I'm comfortable with this, except to the extent that it limits my ability to meet the type of women that I'm interested in. That being said, I have a lot going in my favor. I'm young (under 30), in very good physical condition, quite good looking by most accounts, and I earn a six figure salary. I'm wondering what people think about what I'm doing wrong. I guess the simple answer is to be more outgoing, but that's not simple for everyone. In my case, I have a lot of positive characteristics, but I can't share them because I don't have the skills to get the ball rolling.
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