flyguy23 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I was on day 9 of NC two weeks ago, then my ex contacts me saying she wants to work things out and fix our problems. This is dragged out all this past week and as soon as the weekend comes she stops talking to me. I feel stupid and embarrassed that I responded to her and expressed my feelings for her. Now she just says she doesn't know how to fix our problems and just stopped talking to me. Now I have to begin NC all over again.
cerridwen Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Break-ups suck so hard. Know it's very few people who start and stick with NC the first (or fourth) time around. Relapses are as common as sunrises. That she acted insensitively is over now. Every day it moves further and further into your past. Resist obsessively thinking about it, as it's your inner critic's way of keeping you down and hating yourself. Eyes forward as they say. But be wary of her trying it again. You can control what happens in the future.
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