MrSimple Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Hmmm, things are getting interesting. She sent me a msg earlier today saying she was going to sell this certain item, but apparently the client doesn't want to buy something that is bought before(the item was purchased by my ex) So she wants me to take the rap by saying I was the one who made it. Now here's the interesting part(s) 1. She said before she was never ever gonna sell that item. 2. She knows what will happen if the person were to find out that the item was actually bought and not made. And she still went ahead to ask me to be her scapegoat. Sooo, is it a ploy to get back my attention? Coz it's a rather feeble attempt. I have 2 options. Either i ignore it, or i sent her a msg saying "we both know what will happen if you were to lie to your customer and she finds out about it" I'm guessing her emotions took over her coz she was getting desparate to hear from me again(she thought I got into an accident or something for disappearing from one week, and she's really starting to miss me alot, judging from what she posted on FB) I need your advice! Thanks!
Author MrSimple Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 Feel free to comment or drop any advice, thank you!
DownNotOut Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 I'd leave it alone and ignore, unless in fact you actually want to reconnect with her. She'll figure out the hard way if she lies to her client and they find out - not your problem anymore. Check out my thread if you have a chance, and 5 minutes (it's fairly long) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t305160/ Having a tough time with all this and would appreciate someone elses look.
M2155 Posted November 6, 2011 Posted November 6, 2011 Or maybe it's not about you or wanting your attention. Maybe she just knew you understood and needed a scapegoat like you said. Igonore it, you don't want to be a part of lying. Show higher standards.
Author MrSimple Posted November 6, 2011 Author Posted November 6, 2011 I hope she really didn't sink that low to try to get my attention back, coz she really knows what will happen if she lies to a complete stranger abt this. Too much dependent-cy on me? The next 2 weeks will be crucial, think it'll be the "faults period" of her rebound, where everything will just go wrong. I'll have to plan my move within this 2 weeks. Thanks guys!
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