is there a chance i can get my ex girlfriend back??

[gingerpounder]

you probably heard this same story a thousand times. my girlfriend broke up with me after a year and a half. A couple weeks later, she started dating someone else. I believe its a rebound, but her friends say otherwise. Her friends tell me she is extremely happy with this guy (even though its only been 2 weeks) and that there is no chance she will come back. They are really clingy and are taking things really fast. It just seems strange to me. She constantly looks at me at school whenever she can but never talks to me (she is kinda shy) and tries to make me jealous with her new boyfriend.

 

Is there anything I can do to help win her back? if there still is a slight chance..

 

Thanks

[Phantom24]

This is the plan you need to put in place.

 

If you care about this girl the best thing you can do is be a good friend to her. Tell her you are happy she is happy and just show her than you confident enough to handle the situation. Obviously the person you were was not something that appealed to her enough to maintain your relationship. Take a look at that and start fine tuning yourself. Take something from your break up so that you have something better to offer for the next girl, whether it be her or not. Relationships come and go so if you get your act together and show her how great you are despite not being the center of her attention that will certainly mean something to her.

 

And look at it this way - if she doesn't come around, then you've still taken steps towards being the person you want to be and that will be appealing to someone. But don't undervalue the importance of a good friendship. I know that sounds cliche, but the loyalty won't go unnoticed.

[runner]

yea i don't think the OP is anywhere near being able to friend his ex right now. i think he should just go NC for a while and try to forget about her; even date other girls.