ChelseaLS Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Soo as most of you know my ex and I work together. Today after work we had a quick conversation.. He wanted to know what I was doing this weekend, I kept it vague. I asked him how his day went and he did not good.. That it's been a ****ty start to the month and I could tell he was really bothered. I told him "sorry to hear that but at least the month has just started". He walked away after our chat upset. Now I am dying inside. I HATE to see him upset. When we were together I would always do my best to build him up and let him know it was just a set back. But because we are on a break and I am trying to give him space I said very little and now I feel ****ty about it. I feel guilty that I didn't say more. I know it sounds stupid but it's really eating me up inside.
BCCA Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Its not your job to hold his hand and build him up any more. Youre not together, let that be someone else's job. I think you did AWESOME, and should be very proud of yourself.
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 We are on a "break" right now and I know it's not currently my job, but it's certainly tearing me up. Thanks for reminding me its not my job.
yzyzyz325 Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 on a break? are u considering to get back tgt?
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 I know it's weird and ****ed up but we decided to go on a break and take time to see if this is what we both want. I know I want it, the ex asked for a break and I agreed but siad I wouldn't wait. However I know that this is the only way it will work if we plan to get back together. It's a long story.
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