Acidizer Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Need advice. So I met this girl in one of my classes. She's really cute and a bigger nerd than me. I'm usually too shy/awkward to really talk to girls, but we have so much in common it's not even hard to talk to her. I was finally ready to ask her out, but then I found out she has a boyfriend... FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU I'm almost positive she's attracted to me too.. the way she looks at me sometimes says it all... Im crushing over her hard though.. I haven't ever met anyone like her that I have so much in common with and is so easy to talk to.. I know if I never make a move I will regret it for a looong time.. maybe even forever.. but what can I do if she's not available? I've thought about just pulling a "**** it" and asking her out anyway, but it seems like the only outcome would be rejection based on the fact she's already in a relationship.. We're also working together on a group video project and I sit right next to her in class and I'm worried that if I go for it and get rejected it's just going to be like totally awkward moments until the end of the semester.. WHAT DO I DO!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 How would you feel, if she was your girlfriend and some guy she sees at school was hitting on her and she flirted back, maybe kissed him...a few dates, went back to his house... You'd probably think the guy is an arsehole and you'd want to punch his face in, right? Do you really want to be like that yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
unknownsources Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 How would you feel, if she was your girlfriend and some guy she sees at school was hitting on her and she flirted back, maybe kissed him...a few dates, went back to his house... You'd probably think the guy is an arsehole and you'd want to punch his face in, right? Do you really want to be like that yourself? I think this is a good point. OP, I'm in a pretty similar boat, cept I found out about her boyfriend when I asked her out... If you can stop your romantic feelings and just be her friend, then do so. If you can't, it's probably best you back off. Also, don't ask her out if you know she has a boyfriend. It puts out a lot of bad mojo. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 How did you find out she had a bf if you didn't ask her out? Did someone else tell you? Maybe they don't for sure? Link to post Share on other sites
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