MarMarMar Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 I'm so ****ing angry right now. He came into my work today. I thought he had gotten the hint that I didn't want him around anymore. Starts talking to one of my coworkers about how he got in a fist fight last night(he's been doing that a lot apparently) and all kind of other ****. Finally ends up right next to where I'm working behind the counter and is making jokes about babies and stuff I get pissed and at one joke he's talking about leaving a baby somewhere(and I'm kind of sensitive to that stuff coming from him with the miscarriage and all) then I kind of call him out and he says he's not that bad and I gave him a look cause he didn't seem too concerned when I told him about it and he leaves. Then texts me that he's offended by what I said. I get pissed off and tell him I'm done trying to stay on good terms with him and I just want him out of my life. Responds completely whatever. My sis told me he put up a post on facebook making fun of me. I just wanna break something right now. ****ing ******* broke my NC then is being a dick.
ChelseaLS Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Don't let him get to you. He is being childish and trying to hurt you... From this point ignore ignore ignore and if you see him or he post something.. Ignore. Don't stoop to his level. You're better then that.
Author MarMarMar Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 Don't let him get to you. He is being childish and trying to hurt you... From this point ignore ignore ignore and if you see him or he post something.. Ignore. Don't stoop to his level. You're better then that. Here's my condensed backstory http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t304486/ I'm just having a hard time moving on cause he keeps finding me and stuff and I've only told a few people about the MC and he's being a dick
ChelseaLS Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 From reading your original post I think you're doing great. He clearly has a lot of demons to battle. It sounds like he is angry at you, even though he broke up with you. He maybe mad and trying to hurt you by always being there and doing this stupid ****. Humans do random crazy things when it comes to relationships and break ups. I remember my dad showing up on our door step with a shot gun threatening everyone even though he was the one that left... And these actions were soooo not in my dads nature. He was mad that my mom and us kids were moving on and he seem too. A few months later he was on my moms door step begging her back. I think you need to stay calm and keep the nc as best you can. You're doing great! And you deserve the best.
Author MarMarMar Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 From reading your original post I think you're doing great. He clearly has a lot of demons to battle. It sounds like he is angry at you, even though he broke up with you. He maybe mad and trying to hurt you by always being there and doing this stupid ****. Humans do random crazy things when it comes to relationships and break ups. I remember my dad showing up on our door step with a shot gun threatening everyone even though he was the one that left... And these actions were soooo not in my dads nature. He was mad that my mom and us kids were moving on and he seem too. A few months later he was on my moms door step begging her back. I think you need to stay calm and keep the nc as best you can. You're doing great! And you deserve the best. It's just hard with all the other stuff going on in my life. And I have other people harassing me because I stuck up for him against my exfriend who took out a restraining order on him.
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