A month of grief.

[Mcnulty]

Been a month today since we last spoke....9 days since she changed her FB to "in a relationship" with my "friend"....coward didn't even tell me...i didn't even know we'd split...all this after 8 years...the last 2 of me just listening to her woes....family death, difficult child and ex, her poor health and then the first good offer she gets, shes away.

 

Just feel like ****. R upset about it today, nearly cried at work, then next emotion, I'm angry...fuming...want them to get their comeuppance for the way they treat me...no self esteem or confidence..offers to date...can't face it...still in shock and disbelief.

 

When will i feel some peace??

[Bobby289]

 

When will i feel some peace??

 

When you allow it. You have to allow your mind a way to be completely over your situation. It will not be easy in anyway or not happen overnight but it is all up to you sadly.

[ChelseaLS]

When you allow it. You have to allow your mind a way to be completely over your situation. It will not be easy in anyway or not happen overnight but it is all up to you sadly.

 

Yup. A good way to help the process is to work on your confidence and self esteem. I felt like **** when it happen to me nearly a month ago. I had no confidence, nothing. But I would force myself to smile and walk with my shoulds back like I was confident. I was faking it until I make it... and sometimes I still fake it. Eventually I started to feel confident and believe it. My self esteem started to rise.

Help yourself heal by being proactive.

[Mcnulty]

Thankjs guys.

 

I am trying to be pro active, keeping fit, forcing myself to eat. I want to keep my dignity, so won't contact her.

 

Just an overwhelming feeling of betrayal and emptiness....bafflled by her jumping into a relationship, whilst i can't even think about being with someone else.

 

You never truly know someone else...never.