MrSimple Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Just recently got a msg earlier this night from her asking me for a chat. Should I msg her and say: Call me back if you want to talk? Or ask her to call me back tmr? Coz I can tell she's feeling the pinch that I'm no longer there. I got a friend updating me abt what she post on her wall, and recently it appears she's starting to miss me more and more, and she's getting scared of being alone. What do you guys recommand? Please advise!
Bobby289 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 How long did you date, and time since breakup?
Author MrSimple Posted November 4, 2011 Author Posted November 4, 2011 Abt 9 months, and it has been 1 month since we broke up and she went into a rebound. Seems like the rebound is starting to wear off~
geegirl Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Rebound is wearing off and she is falling back on you. Sounds yucky to me.
Bobby289 Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Rebounds say a lot about the people, is that what you want back in your life?
ChelseaLS Posted November 4, 2011 Posted November 4, 2011 Rebounds say a lot about the people, is that what you want back in your life? Rebound says they are trying to move on as fast as possible... but rebounds don't always work out that way. It doesn't make them a bad person, just a person trying to move on... in not the best way.
Author MrSimple Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 I boiled it down to this simple logic. She is a young lady which I gave some sweets to, and also taught her how to get sweets on her own. So she came to me. Along comes another guy who offers her a huge bag of sweets, so naturally she'll run towards him. And.. appears that the bag of sweets has run out, and she suddenly feels like: "Eh? He can't give me anymore. And what happened to the other guy(me) who vanished suddenly?" So emotions took over her and she couldn't take the week of silence and finally gave in to contacting me. Well, I dropped her a msg saying "Hey! Sorry, was busy. Do you want to call me back?" but fell asleep after that. When I woke up, she replied with a "U still there?" Guess I'll go back into silence till she finally calls me. I ain't gonna reply msgs coz she's hiding behind the phone. But this probably means she's gulity and doesn't want to hear my voice in case it triggers off memories and she misses me EVEN more.(That's what I want anyway) So, I'll go back into NC and wait for the call?
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